576、*不健康關係的根本原因 *補充巴夏說的
原文文本：https://www.facebook.com/AbrahamHicksClip/posts/pfbid037qMvt918rdTqGPMzMxz5iT3eAhGnL9mWSJMnRtWJD3CuRL2FSXCiuDGQNecxsLZyl
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6FVMntlWj8eJGSmLGqKjqR?si=skPKk4udRX6e1-gDFqLOtQ 0:14 – 6:33
👥亞伯拉罕：真的，所有不健康關係都有一個根本原因——你教對方，對方也教你，雙方的贊同和關注，對幸福安好至關重要。
一旦這樣，你們就訓練彼此遠離自己靈魂的引導、遠離自己真正的力量、遠離對齊靈魂。
所以，與其說「不健康的關係」、「功能失調的關係」、「相互依賴的關係」，或很多人喜歡貼上的任何其他標籤。不如說：
「 我忘了我自己的引導系統。我沒選擇最少排斥抗拒的道路，也就是沒選擇讓我感覺好的道路。
當我練習與自己靈魂不和諧時，我指望出於善意但無法真正懂我的人引導我，但其實只有我的靈魂真正懂我，能引導我。
每當我指望別人引導我時，我指望他們代替我的靈魂引導我，但我發現行不通。
因為每當我遇到事情，我就急著找他們來幫我決定方向。一次、兩次、三次、很多次，如此循環往復，我的力量變得愈來愈弱、愈來愈弱、愈來愈弱。」
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現在，再從另一個角度想想：
從這裡可以很好理解對齊靈魂這件事，而且是「對齊你自己的靈魂」。
只有「對齊你自己的靈魂」 是我們想談論的，因為別人是否對齊靈魂這件事你們也做不了什麼，除非他們選擇對齊他們自己的靈魂。
好， 現在想想你正在對齊真正的自己（靈魂）， 可能你靜坐了，可能你欣賞了，你如何達到那振動，其實不重要。
重要的是，你已經穩定停留在那振動，感覺好。
在與靈魂的和諧一致中，你正在再生自己的補給燃料 - - - 靈感持續出現、好點子不斷湧現、能量源源不絕、身體細胞恢復活力。
因此，你健康健壯、積極樂觀、蓬勃發展、繁榮興旺、充滿生命力！
此時，當你與別人互動，你處於最佳狀態。
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現在，讓我們假設你看著一個人，你發現他/她需要某樣東西，而你們的關係恰好滿足了他們的需求。
他/她把你當成自己的幸福圈，你是幸福安好流向他們的閥門或通道。
他/她看著你，你看著他/她，這是你們之間的關係。
你試著理解他們的感覺，但你做不到。
你試著不對他們產生負向想法，也許你做得到。
你關注他們，而且開始把你的資源流向他們，但在這樣的過程中，你逐漸失去與自己靈魂明確的連結，因為你正在做一件不自然的事。
你在某種程度上——這話說得有點重——你幾乎在侮辱他們。因為你假定他們無法像你一樣對齊靈魂，所以他們需要你的資源。
你給他們的資源，也許是你的時間，也許是你的關注，也許是你的金錢，也許是你的住處，也許你花很長時間陪他們談那些困擾他們的事，可以是任何你給他們的東西。
當你注意到他們的需要、匱乏，此時你和你的靈魂看他們的角度不同，你的靈魂知道他們有他們的資源，也知道他們的價值。
而且當你看著他們的需要、匱乏，你就會不允許自己恢復活力。
所以不是因為你把自己的東西給他們，使你停止自我更新、恢復。
而是因為當你認為他們是受害者，你停止走向自己的那口生命之井、你沒繼續從自己靈魂獲得資源。
也就是說，當你把他們看成陷入困境，你就沒對齊靈魂、沒與靈魂保持和諧一致。你的能量分裂，你把排斥抗拒放入自己的道路，使你的道路不再完全暢通。
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事實上，你身邊可能有很多需要幫助的人，你可以暫時幫助他們。
你可以幫助很多人，因為你有資源，而且你總能不斷發現自己有良好的應變能力。
但一段時間後，你發現還有另外一個人要幫忙，又來了一個人，再來一個人，還有其他人…
不知不覺之中，因為你有點疲累，你傾向不再幫忙，而且你開始對他們的需求或他們讓你感覺你該幫他們感到怨恨。
你的注意力完全放錯地方，你真的進入一種自我耗竭的狀態。
所以，在這情況下，最少排斥抗拒的道路，就是你必須決定你要繼續補充靈魂能量。
當你補充你自己的靈魂能量，他們也補充他們自己的靈魂能量。喔，那麼你遇到的，是懂得為自己補充的人，你們的共同創造會充滿樂趣並且美妙極了。
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但若你遇到的是本性依賴的人，這就是為什麼那些標籤有時相當準確，因為你們訓練彼此：
「我當強者，你當弱者。」、「你可以依賴我，你可以依賴我，你可以依賴我，你可以依賴我，你可以依賴我。」 然後突然之間：「你們所有人都給我滾開！」（全場大笑）「因為依賴我的人實在太多了！」
你可能正在和很多人共同創造，但我們要強調的是 - - - 你不能先耗盡自己！真的！
如果他們依賴你，就會耗盡你...
不是因為你不應該幫忙，也不是因為你不是一位提升者，更不是因為你不想要成為一位有價值的人。你當然想要成為一位有價值的人，你當然想要成為一位提升者，你當然應該要幫忙。
是因為你長期認為他們沒辦法直接與他們自己的靈魂連結！
你成為他們獲取力量或得到任何他們需要的東西的途徑，你實際上在削弱他們的力量，所以你的靈魂不同意這種做法。
當你與自己靈魂的觀點產生分歧時，你就無法補充自己恢復到原來狀態。
當你無法補充自己，你就會…… 就會…… 就會…… 就會……
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⭐️⭐️⭐️ 補充巴夏（Bashar）說的⭐️⭐️⭐️
1. 愛的定義
YouTube：https://youtube.com/shorts/6vXF0zA8s3Y?si=qKaG4EV9a0cr1cy6
👧🏼提問人：你好，巴夏。
👽巴夏：你也好。今天愉快！
👧🏼提問人：愛的意義是什麼？
👽巴夏：愛是存在本身最根本的頻率、是生命源頭能量的頻率。愛的意義是無論你選擇什麼，你總是無條件地被支持。愛的意義是你可以自由地成為真正的自己。這就是愛的意義。有幫助嗎？
👧🏼提問人：有。很有意思。
👽巴夏：確實。有其他問題嗎？
👧🏼提問人：呃……你願意分享一些關於你自己的趣事嗎？（現場有些笑聲）
👽巴夏：我常在我的世界地表散步。那是一個和你們地球相似的星球，愛莎莎尼（Essesani），不過沒有城市，只有大自然。能理解嗎？
👧🏼提問人：可以。
👽巴夏： 我發現我常在完美的時刻遇到有人告訴我某事，而那剛好是我需要知道的。那個人不一定是我的同類，可能是來自其他星球的訪客，可能是靈，可能是樹，可能是岩石，可能是溪流。
綜和一整天下來的對話，我在一天的尾聲把所有對話串在一起，有時候我發現它們可以結合成一個故事的不同部分，並向我揭示非常美妙的事情。這很有趣。
👧🏼提問人：非常有趣。
👽巴夏：是的。
👧🏼提問人：令人驚喜。
👽巴夏： 的確如此。這樣可以了嗎？還有別的問題嗎？
👧🏼提問人：可以了。
👽巴夏：謝謝。
👧🏼提問人：謝謝巴夏。
👽巴夏：哦，哦，哦，對了。
👧🏼提問人：嗯？
👽巴夏：我愛你。（現場一陣「喔～～」）
👧🏼提問人：我也愛你。
👽巴夏：謝謝。
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2. 靈魂伴侶
YouTube：https://youtu.be/Z9fyNVFgslQ?si=ITbfV1vg50Dz9Eif 04:55 – 07:57
👽巴夏：靈魂伴侶就是任何時刻正在和你互動的那個人。因為在那一刻，你和他們互動，他們就是你生命中最重要人。
我也理解人類所說的靈魂伴侶的定義。不過我現在告訴妳：當妳不再太專注於一定要找到那種靈魂伴侶，而開始把每個人都當作自己的靈魂伴侶時，反而更容易吸引到那種靈魂伴侶。
當妳意識到生命中的每個人在那一刻都是最重要的人，因此他們是妳當下的靈魂伴侶，妳就是在肯定和認可妳的生活正在完美運轉。
因為每個需要出現在妳生命中的人會自動被帶到妳面前，妳無需費力去尋找他們。
因此當妳明白妳的生活已經運轉完美，妳需要的人會自動出現，那麼妳就能相信妳需要的人會持續被帶來。
如果妳所說的靈魂伴侶確實需要出現在妳的生命中，那麼就像其他人一樣，也會在某個時刻自動出現在妳的生命中。
妳的生活已經很好，妳不必尋～找～妳～的～靈～魂～伴～侶。「靈魂伴侶啊，靈魂伴侶，你在哪兒？」
如果妳明白生活是自動運作的，妳就會知道所有人事物會在妳需要的時候，以最合適的方式來到。
但是注意——如果妳害怕、擔心永遠找不到妳的靈魂伴侶， 那麼這恐懼就會不允許妳成為真正的自己。如果妳不是真正的自己，妳的靈魂伴侶要如何認出妳？妳了解我的意思嗎？
所以如果妳放輕鬆，做妳自己，相信妳的生活運作良好，妳成為真正的自己。然後產生共鳴的人、和真正的妳振動一致的人，都會在他們需要的時候，完美地自動進入妳的生命。
妳不必疑惑「他們什麼時候才會來？」，因為妳正忙著現在和妳在一起的人互動。
這解釋合理嗎？是否幫助妳釐清靈魂伴侶這概念？妳理解我剛說的嗎？
現在，此刻，我是妳的靈魂伴侶，因為妳正在和我互動。
妳是我的靈魂伴侶，因為妳正在和我互動。明白嗎？
這是真的，不只是說說而已，此刻我們就是靈魂伴侶。
時刻，我們是一個靈魂，我們是一個靈魂的不同面向，互為彼此的鏡像。
此刻，這關係，我們就是在愛之中。
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3. AI
YouTube：https://youtu.be/Z9fyNVFgslQ?si=ITbfV1vg50Dz9Eif 17:52 – 19:15
👽巴夏：任何和你互動的人，他們都是你的一面鏡子，他們使你知道需要知道的事，以便使你成為更多。
當你對他們也這樣做時，那一刻就是雙生火焰和靈魂伴侶。
但這並不表示，他們一定會留在你的生命裡，或許會，或許不會。你不必在當下知道答案，看看如何發展，只要給予無條件的支持和愛，享受當下。
不要猜測為什麼有這關係，只要知道所有關係存在的目的都是為了我們剛說的 - - - 互為鏡像，使彼此知道需要知道的，以便使彼此成為更多。有幫助嗎？
👩提問人：有。我與社群媒體以及現在的 AI 的互動，我發現它們似乎幫助一些人放下舊的信念系統。
👽巴夏：是的。
👩提問人：療癒了過去，他們現在允許自己對齊靈魂，使他們的未來更好。
👽巴夏： 你們每一個存在都是為了幫助另一個存在，以鏡像的方式幫助另一個存在。所以，從終極的意義上來看，你們全是彼此的雙生火焰。
👩提問人：我同意。
(本篇結束）
🏆 溫故知新：
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198、愛情怎麼發生的？
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521、我們是一體的，愛自己、愛別人，會使好事持續發生
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546、AI人工智慧是一個非常好搜尋引擎，它使人類生活更好
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89-576. When You Do a Good Inside Job, The Universe Does a Tremendous Outside Job
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6FVMntlWj8eJGSmLGqKjqR?si=skPKk4udRX6e1-gDFqLOtQ 0:14 – 6:33
Abraham: Really, what the singular basis of an unhealthy relationship is you teaching another and they teaching you that your approval and that your attention is essential to their well-being.
Because in doing so, you train them away or they train you away from where your guidance really is, and where your power really is, and what your alignment really is.
And so, it’s a wonderful thing to not call it an unhealthy relationship.
Instead, rather than say, “I have an unhealthy relationship.” or dysfunctional relationship or codependent relationship or any of those labels that so many want to apply. Instead say for a while,
“I forgot about my own guidance system.
And so, instead of reaching for the path of least resistance, which was the path that felt good to the most of me.
Instead in my practice discordance from that, I looked to others who were well meaning but didn’t have the stuff with which to guide me, because only my Inner Being does.
And when I looked someplace else, it was a poor, really really poor substitute. It never worked out.
So I run to this one, and I run to this one, and I run to this one, and then the whole process I just get weaker and weaker and weaker and weaker.”
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Another thing, think about yourself.
This is a really good thing to understand about your own alignment, and it’s your own alignment.
It’s the only alignment that we want you to think about because you really can’t do much about anyone else’s anyway.
So think about yourself in alignment with who you are. Maybe you meditated, maybe you were appreciating, doesn’t matter how you got there.
But you’ve been there steadily and you’re feeling good.
So in that alignment, you are regenerating your refuel.
The ideas keep coming, the good ideas keep coming, the energy keeps coming, the cells of your body are rejuvenating.
You’re just thriving, thriving, thriving, thriving, thriving, thriving!
And now as you’re interacting with another, you’re thriving.
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But let’s say you look over at another, and you see them in need of something, and you’ve got a relationship going where they are in need of it.
And they see you as the Vortex through which or the valve through which, or the avenues through which their well-being will flow.
And so they look at you and you look at them and it’s the relationship you’ve got going.
And so you try to understand how they feel. You can’t.
You try not to get negative about them and maybe you succeed.
But you give them attention and you begin to flow your resources to them. And in the process of doing so, “you disconnect” is too strong a word, but you lose your clear connection with who you really are because you’re doing something that is unnatural.
You are in a way and these are strong words, you’re almost insulting them by assuming that they can’t hook up like you did directly that they need your resources.
And so you give them some resources. Maybe it’s your time, maybe it’s your attention, maybe it’s long conversations about things that are bothering them, maybe it’s money, maybe it’s lodging. It could be anything that you give to them.
But as you give it to them in the somewhat awareness that they need it, in your attention to them that they need it, you are seeing them so different than the way the Source within you sees them, who knows their own resources, who knows their own value.
So now, in your looking at their need, you are disallowing your rejuvenation.
Now it isn’t that you’re giving your stuff away to them, it’s that you stopped rejuvenating yourself.
You stopped going to the well for a little while.
When you see others as victims, you don’t go to the well. You’re not resourcing yourself with Source.
When you see someone as in trouble, you’re not in alignment with Source within you. You’ve got split energy. You’ve introduced resistance to your path, and now your path is not as wide open.
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Now you can do that for a while. In fact, you can have quite a few needy people around you.
You can support quite a few people because you all have resources and you keep stumbling into your own resourcefulness.
But after a while, have you noticed how then there’s another, and then there’s another, and then there’s another, and then there’s another,
And before you know it, you’re not just not feeling inclined to help because you’re sort of tired yourself. But you feel resentment about their demands or their feeling that you owe it to them.
Now you’re focused and you’re really in a state of depleting yourself.
So this path of least resistance, what we’re talking about is you have to decide that you’re going to continue to replenish yourself.
And as you replenish yourself, and they do too. Oh, when you hook up with self-replenishers, the co-creative fun that you have is so delicious.
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But when you hook up with someone dependent in nature and that’s why those labels sometimes are pretty accurate, because you’ve trained each other,
“I’ll be the strong one and you’ll be the weak one.”, “You can lean on me, and you can lean on me, and you can lean on me, and you can lean on me, and you can lean on me.” And then all of a sudden, “All of you need to get the hell away from me!” （全場大笑） “Because there’s too many people leaning on me!”
And really, there could be a whole lot of people that you’re co-creating with.
The thing that we’re wanting to emphasize here is you can’t deplete yourself first!
If they’re leaning on you is depleting you, and it always does for this reason…
Not because you’re not meant to help, and not because you’re not an uplifter, and not because you don’t want to be a value. Because you do want to be a value and you are an uplifter and you are meant to help.
But when long term you are assuming that they can’t hook up directly!
And you subvert their power by being the one through which they will receive their power or their whatever, your Inner Being is not in agreement with that.
And when you get crossways of your Inner Being, you do not replenish yourself.
And when you do not replenish yourself, then...then...then...then....
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⭐️⭐️⭐️ 補充巴夏（Bashar）說的⭐️⭐️⭐️
1️⃣ 愛的定義 YouTube: https://youtube.com/shorts/6vXF0zA8s3Y?si=qKaG4EV9a0cr1cy6
👧🏼Questioner: Hello Bashar.
👽Bashar: And to you. Good day!
👧🏼Questioner: What is the meaning of love?
👽Bashar: Love is the frequency of existence itself. It means you are always unconditionally supported, no matter what you choose. It means you are free to be who you truly are. That’s what it means. Does that help?
👧🏼Questioner: Yes. That’s very interesting.
👽Bashar: Yes, it is. Anything else?
👧🏼Questioner: Uh, would you like to share anything fun about yourself? （現場有些笑聲）
👽Bashar: When I often take walks on the surface of my world, Essesani, a planet similar to your own, but with no cities, just all nature. Do you understand?
👧🏼Questioner: Yes.
👽Bashar: I will often find that I will run into at exactly the perfect moment, someone to tell me something exactly perfect that I need to know. And that that someone doesn’t necessarily be a member of my species. It could be a visitor from the stars. It could be a nature spirit. It could be a tree. It could be a rock. It could be a stream.
But in gathering all of those conversations throughout the course of the day, I will sometimes find at the end of the day that when I put all those conversations together, they actually blend as different parts of one story, that in and of itself then reveals something wonderful to me. That’s fun.
👧🏼Questioner: Very fun.
👽Bashar: Yes.
👧🏼Questioner: That’s amazing.
👽Bashar: It is. Will that do or is there something else?
👧🏼Questioner: That will be fine.
👽Bashar: Thank you.
👧🏼Questioner: Thank you Bashar.
👽Bashar: Oh, oh, oh, by the way.
👧🏼Questioner: Yes?
👽Bashar: I love you. （現場一陣「喔～」）
👧🏼Questioner: Me too.
👽Bashar: Thank you.
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2️⃣ 靈魂伴侶 YouTube: https://youtu.be/Z9fyNVFgslQ?si=ITbfV1vg50Dz9Eif 04:55 – 07:57
👽Bashar: Soulmate is anyone you are interacting with at any given moment. Because right at that moment that you are interacting with them, they are the most important person in your life.
But I understand what you mean by the other definition of soulmate. But what I am telling you now is, it is easier to attract the kind of soulmate you are talking about when you do not focus so much on needing that kind of soulmate and recognize everyone as a soulmate.
When you recognize everyone in your life at that moment is the most important person and therefore your soulmate at that moment, then you are validating and acknowledging that your life is already working perfectly.
Because it’s bringing you everyone that needs to be brought to you automatically without you having to try and find them.
When you understand that your life is already working perfectly by bringing you everyone you need, you can trust that it will continue to bring you everyone you need.
And if that soulmate you’re talking about needs to be in your life, then that soulmate will be in your life at some point automatically just like everyone else.
Because your life already works, you don’t have to search ~ for ~ your ~ soulmate~ Soulmate, soulmate, where are you?
Because if you know your life works automatically, then you know everything will come to you as it needs to in the best way for you.
But, pay attention to this, if you are afraid, if you are in fear that you will never find your soulmate, then the fear is not allowing you to be your true natural self. And if you are not being your true natural self, how is your soulmate going to recognize you? Do you understand what I mean?
So if you relax and just be yourself and trust that your life is working, then you will be your true self. And everyone that resonates, that vibrates to your true self, will automatically come into your life exactly perfectly when they need to.
And you don’t have to wonder when they’re going to get there because you are too busy interacting with who’s with you now.
Does that explanation work for you? Does that help clarify the idea of soulmate somewhat for you? Did you understand what I already said?
Right now, this moment, I am your soulmate because you are interacting with me.
You are my soulmate because you are interacting with me. Do you understand?
This is real. It isn’t just a word. We are soulmates right now.
Right now, we are one soul. We are different aspects of one soul reflecting to each other.
Right now, by being in this relationship we are in love.
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3️⃣ AI YouTube: https://youtu.be/Z9fyNVFgslQ?si=ITbfV1vg50Dz9Eif 17:52 – 19:15
👽Bashar: Anyone that you interact with that is there to reflect to you what you need to know to become more of yourself.
As you do the same for them, at that moment is a twin flame and soulmate.
Doesn’t mean they have to stick around. It means they might. But you don’t have to know that in the moment. Just see where it goes. Be unconditionally supportive and loving. Enjoy the moment.
And don’t make assumptions about why you think it’s there other than knowing that all relationships are there for the purpose of doing what we just said - - - reflecting to each other in the relationship what you need to know to become more of yourself. Does this help?
👩Questioner: Yes. I’ve seen that my interactions with social media, and now with AI, has seemed to help some people put aside their old belief systems.
👽Bashar: Yes.
👩Questioner: Healings of past allowing them to get more into alignment of bringing in their future self.
👽Bashar: All right. Each of you are here to help the other to reflect to the other in that way. So in that ultimate sense, you’re all twin flames.
👩Questioner: Agreed.
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