533、當「差異對比」發生時,處變不驚、心平氣和
主要YouTube: https://youtu.be/omocheXVJE8?si=ZqqqG6xuev93ogjD 從0:15開始到結束
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👨🦰提問人:我想談談「差異對比」,特別是負向的差異對比。幾天前,我和一些朋友共進午餐,我們討論「差異對比」也有正向的益處。例如,這經驗會使你為自己的幸福圈增添更多東西… (被亞伯拉罕打斷)
👥亞伯拉罕:所有「差異對比」我們都視為正向。 (全場安靜2~3秒,有零星掌聲)
因為其中的每一個細節都因此清晰明白了。你們同意嗎?清晰明白是一件好事,不是嗎?
👨🦰提問人:完全同意。
👥亞伯拉罕:換句話說,若一切都是關於「想法的流動」、「想法能量」、「想法方向」,那麼「差異對比」是不是使你們更清楚自己要什麼?這是正向的事吧?
👨🦰提問人:嗯。
👥亞伯拉罕:是呀。 我們靈魂知道你們想法流動方向之後,才能引導你們前往,是吧?
👨🦰提問人:是這樣的,對。
👥亞伯拉罕:今天稍早我們才剛討論過不要試圖推動「差異對比」。
也就是說,不要自找麻煩!也不要對「差異對比」的價值太過興奮,那樣只會引起麻煩。
當「差異對比」來臨時,接受它、欣賞它、享受它,然後看它之後會帶來什麼結果,有時候需要一點長遠的眼光。
當「差異對比」出現時,討論的就是創造的步驟,第一步驟、第二步驟、第三步驟、第四步驟、第五步驟,以及你們如何時不時地突然回到第一步驟,但你們真的不想回到第一步驟。
然而能象徵你們真的精通熟練「創造」,就是當你們回到第一步驟時,你們怎麼做?
我們認為你真的想討論的是如何回應「差異對比」。
因為若情緒穩定,「差異對比」像是「喔~太棒了,要別的東西!」
若情續不穩定,「差異對比」像是「哦,天哪,我現在真的不要那個。」
所以,一切都取決於當「差異對比」來時,你們怎麼想,對吧?
👨🦰提問人:嗯。
👥亞伯拉罕:我們討論過不要強迫第一步驟發生。我們說過這樣的話:「讓生活來找你們,它會來的!」
讓生活來找你們,它會來的!然後,你們從與靈魂連結和情緒穩定的位置,開始探索來到的生活,並決定該怎麼做。
1️⃣♓️讓我們舉個例子:
想像一下這個畫面 - - - 埃希特(Esther Hicks)的工人們來到她家,還帶來了一台巨大的吊車。它高聳入天,有人坐在吊車的駕駛座。屋頂上也有人,準備接住從空中垂下來的大鍊子。每個人都各就各位,他們都非常專業。
然後埃希特站在那裡大喊:
「小心‼️」
「注意安全❗️」
「不要那樣勾‼️」
「別從屋頂掉下來❗️」
他們會希望她離開現場,是吧?(現場大笑)
她是不是在妨礙他們工作?
👨👩👧👦全場回答:是。
👥亞伯拉罕:她有幫上忙嗎?你們懂我們要說什麼了吧?(現場有些笑聲)
為什麼像埃希特這樣的人,會這麼做呢?她為什麼會這麼做?
因為她認為她自己知道得比他們更多,所以她不信任屋頂上施工的人,或者她不信任那台吊車。
但你們可以信任屋頂上施工的人,
你們可以信任天空中的無形,
你們可以信任你們的靈魂,
你們可以相信你們存在的價值,
你們可以相信你們存在的幸福。
你們可以相信你們的事情都會很順。
你們只要決定 - - - 你們要幫忙,還是要妨礙?
我們要你們進屋裡去,或者若能離開這城鎮一會兒會更好。
我們要你們不妨礙那些「正在為你們發生的幸福美好」。
我們希望你們少一點預設「事情是不對的」、「目前是不完整的」、「我需要改變它,才能感覺好」,多一點「相信幸福美好正在發生」。好嗎?
2️⃣♓️再舉個例子:
某次研討會,埃希特(Esther Hicks) 在台上,台下的你們開始感覺不舒服,你們搧著風。
當我們說話時,埃希特從未感覺不舒服。但那時她也開始感覺有點不舒服了。
整個會場越來越熱、越來越熱、越來越熱、越來越熱,直到那一個段落結束。
休息時間,埃希特走到後台,戴上耳機,和其他戴著耳機的人說話。她想知道這是怎麼回事,她問:「會場有點熱,現在溫度幾度?」他們有溫度計,本來目的是要讓你們覺得舒適,但她被告知空調壞了。
現在「空調壞了」是一個第一步驟時刻。
因為埃希特在意你們是否舒服,所以他們正在聯絡。
於是,埃希特離開會場,在走廊上閒晃,那裡很涼快。
她搭上電梯,下了一層樓,那裡超級涼快。她碰巧遇到飯店的一位經理,說:「我們會場非常熱。」
她被告知:「有一組空調系統壞了,我們正在聯絡備援。」
然後她能聽到他們跟別人的談話,對方不在現場。
埃希特知道備援還沒上路,來不及趕到,來不及讓會場變涼。
她正在經歷一個「第一步驟」時刻,
但她仍然很穩定,
她沒有失控,
她沒有開始慌張。
因此,最簡單的解決方法就是打開一些門,讓空氣對流。所以其實事情也沒那麼糟,空調壞了,解決方法出現,而且有效。
你們可以說這是「應變」,也可以說這是「利用現有條件使情況達到最佳改善」。不然還能怎麼做?
當發生一個「第一步驟」時刻、發生一個「差異對比」,你們就要因此停止存在嗎?
你們不能用命令、蠻力、敲擊到位的方式,那麼我們真正想問 - - - 你們有別的選擇嗎?
如果你們是對齊靈魂的大師、如果你們在意自己持續有好感覺,但有時候發生你們此刻無法掌控的事情,你們的選擇是什麼?
你們仍會想要尋找解決方案,而且總會找到方法,能讓情況稍微變好一點。
因此,如果你們生活目標是「總是往好一點的地方看」,
而不是自找麻煩、
而不是不斷談論麻煩、
而不是試圖防衛、
或非得把別人說得很錯,好讓自己顯得很對。但這不是你們的風格,我們知道!
如果你們能朝著「自己想要的方向看去」,那麼總會有「想要的東西正在過來」。即使不是此時此刻,但它會來,終究會來。
生活本該充滿樂趣,你們真的會想要生活找上自己時,能讓你們運用自己學習發展過的技能。
然而每個人都能夠發展的最強大技能 - - - 就是在任何情況下都能保持對齊靈魂的本領!
那是「無條件的愛」的本領,那是「不需要任何人做任何事以便使自己感覺情緒變好」的本領。
當埃希特意識到「現場沒人能處理這件事」時,行動部分的緊張感隨之消散,她也似乎鬆了一口氣。
我們要你們把所有一切的行動部分的「緊張感拿掉」,因為 - - -
那沒有槓桿作用、
那沒有力量、
那沒有影響力、
那很無趣、
那很沒力量、
創造力不在那裡、
那不是真正的你!
你們並不是來人世要求情況,以便自己有好心情。
你們是來掌控自己的情緒反應!因為你們有專注的能力,你們可以專注生活中已經運作良好的事,然後所有其他的好事都會隨之而來!
你們能感覺到其中差異嗎?
(本篇結束)
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299、欣賞 Appreciation
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403、人類常在第一步驟,動物常在第三步驟
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58-533. What are you doing during the contrast?
YouTube: https://youtu.be/omocheXVJE8?si=ZqqqG6xuev93ogjD 從0:15開始 到最後
👨🦰Questioner: What I really want to talk about is Is contrast that happens the negative contrast. I was having lunch with some friends a couple days ago, we talked about the benefit of the positive side of contrast. Like if you have great experiences in how that adds more to your Vortex... (被亞伯拉罕打斷)
👥Abraham: We see all contrast is positive. (全場安靜2~3秒,有零星掌聲)
Because every bit of it is clarifying. Would you agree? And isn’t something that’s clarifying of benefit?
👨🦰Questioner: Absolutely.
🫂Abraham: In other words, if this is all about flowing thought and thought energy and direction of thought, then isn’t something that makes you clear about what you want? Isn’t that a positive thing?
👨🦰Questioner: Mm-Hmm.
👥Abraham: Yeah. So where were you going before we headed you off?
👨🦰Questioner: That’s kind of it. Yeah.
👥Abraham: Earlier today we had just had a discussion about not trying to push contrast. In other words, not looking for trouble. So don’t look for trouble. Don’t get so excited about the value of contrast that you just stir trouble up.
But when it comes, accept it and appreciate it and enjoy it and watch what comes as a result of it later. It takes a little bit of a long view sometimes.
So earlier today we were talking about not looking for trouble. But when contrast comes, it was the discussion about Step 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. And how every now and again you’re just all of a sudden back in Step 1 and you don’t really want to be back in Step 1.
But the question and what indicates true mastery is what you do when now you’re having a Step 1 moment. What do you do with it?
It’s how you respond to the contrast that is really what we think you want to talk about here.
Because if you’re steady, then contrast is sort of like “Oh, Yippee, something else to what!”
And if you’re not steady, then contrast is “Oh, man, I really didn’t need that right now.”
So, it all depends on what you’re doing when it comes? Yes?
👨🦰Questioner: Mm-Hmm.
👥Abraham: So, we had the discussion about not forcing the Step 1 moment. And we had offered the word something like “Just let life come to you and it will”.
Just let life come to you and it will. And then you, from your connected and shored up position, now you get to explore the life that has come and decide what you’re gonna do about it.
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So picture this - - - The men have arrived. They brought their crane. It’s enormous. It’s high in the sky. There are men sitting in the cabin of the crane. There are men on the roof, receiving the big chain that’s coming down. Everyone’s in place and they are so good at this.
And then Esther are standing there yelling,
“Watch out‼️”
“Be careful❗️”
“Don’t hook it up like that‼️”
“Don’t fall off the roof❗️”
They’d like of like her to go away, wouldn’t they? (現場大笑)
Is she hindering the cause?
👨👩👧👦The audience: Yes.
👥Abraham: Is she helping the cause? And so, you sort of get the point. (現場有些笑聲)
So why would someone like Esther, why would she do that? Why would she do that?
Only if she thinks she knows better, she doesn’t trust the men on the roof. Or, if she doesn’t trust the crane.
But you can trust the men on the roof.
You can trust the non-physical in the sky.
You can trust your non-physical counterparts.
You can trust the worthiness of your being.
You can trust the blessedness of your being.
You can trust the things are working out for you.
You can just decide whether you want to help or hinder?
And we just want you to go in the house or better still leave town for a while.
We just want you to get out of the way of the well-being that’s happening on your behalf.
We want you to be less involved in fixing things and more involved in trusting that well-being is happening. Yes?
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So, about then, the words were barely out of Esther’s mouth, and you’re fanning yourselves, you’re starting to feel uncomfortable.
Esther who never feels uncomfortable when we speak was beginning to feel a little uncomfortable.
The room was getting warmer and warmer and warmer and warmer, and so it was the end of the segment.
Esther went back and she put on her headset so that she can talk to the others who have headsets. And she wanted to know, she said, “The room’s a little warm, what’s the temperature?” They have temperature gauges. Their intention is to keep you comfortable. And she was told that the air conditioner was not working.
“The air conditioner is not working” now that was a Step 1 moment.
Because Esther cares about you being comfortable. They’re working on it.
And so, Esther left and she roamed around in the hallways. It’s very cool back there.
She got on a service elevator went down a floor, it’s really cool down there. Happened to run into one of the managers of the hotel and was able to say, “It’s very warm in our room.”
And she was told, “We have a broken unit and we’re calling back up.”
And then she can hear them talking to the people, they’re not on the premises.
Esther knows backup isn’t coming. Not in time, not in time to cool this room down.
But Esther’s still.
She hasn’t lost her grip.
She isn’t starting to panic.
She’s having a Step 1 moment.
So, the simple solution is just open some doors let’s get some cross ventilation. It’s not that bad in here. The air conditioner is not working, but a solution comes, the solution works.
You might call it “coping”. You might call it “just making the best of a situation”. Because what are you gonna do?
A Step 1 moment happens or you’re just going to cease to exist now?
You can’t bang it into place. What are you gonna do? What we’re really asking you is - - - Do you have any choice?
If you are a master of alignment and if you care about feeling good, and something happens over which you have no “in this moment” control, what are your options?
You look for a solution and there always is one. There’s something that can always make it a little better.
And so, if that’s your goal in life to “always look where it’s a little better”.
Instead of looking for trouble,
instead of drumming in trouble,
instead of trying to be defensive,
or trying to make someone really wrong so that you can be really right which is not your style at all, we know.
If you can instead look in the direction of what you want, there’s always something that’s coming. And if not right now this red-hot minute. Eventually, eventually.
Life is supposed to be fun. And you really do want it to come to you in ways that allow you to utilize the skills that you are developing.
And the greatest skill that any of you could ever develop - - - is the skill of alignment, no matter what!
That’s the skill of unconditional love. That’s the skill of needing no one to do anything in order to fix this.
It was almost a relief to Esther when she realized that there was no one on the premises that was going to be able to do anything about that, took all the tension off the action part of it.
And we want you to take all the tension off the action part of everything, because - - -
That’s not where the leverage is,
That’s not where the power is.
That’s not where the influence is.
That’s not where the fun is.
That’s not where the power is.
That’s not where the creation is.
That’s not who you are.
You didn’t come to demand conditions to which you could have an emotional response.
You came to conjure an emotional response because of your ability to focus, understanding that everything else would follow.
Can you feel the distinction?
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