525、不喜歡的人或行為，是自己振動的反照

 

525、不喜歡的人或行為，是自己振動的反照

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👥亞伯拉罕：你說有人批評你的某些行為。
 


🧔🏻‍♂️提問人：對。
 


👥亞伯拉罕：你被批評時感覺不舒服，你覺得為什麼自己會感覺不舒服？


🧔🏻‍♂️提問人：因為那不是真的。
 


👥亞伯拉罕：你認為你感覺不舒服是因為他們誤解你、錯誤評斷你。但實際上，你的感覺不舒服來自於你在評斷「他們對你的評斷」。
 


🧔🏻‍♂️提問者：嗯。


 
👥亞伯拉罕：讓我們假設某人今天心情不好，你不知道為什麼，但他們不只今天心情不好，其實他們經常心情不好。

你與他們有某種互動，現在他們的壞情緒有點蔓延且開始影響你的經驗。

你本來心情很好，但你今天不如往常順利美好，因此你認為是他們的錯。

但其實你的感覺不舒服是因為「你剛把自己的力量交給他們」。

因為你認為：「只要你那樣，我就無法有好感覺。我無法控制你妻子怎麼對你，我無法控制你有債務的事實、你母親生病的事實、你孩子不喜歡你的事實，我無法控制你生活中的所有這些蔓延影響到我的經驗。因此，我感覺不好，是因為你的感覺不好。」
 
然而，我們要告訴你，你感覺不好，是因為你讓那些你無法控制的外在條件掌控了你自己的生活經驗。
 
如果你能退一步，然後說：

「等一下，我的感覺不好不是因為『你不喜歡我』，而是因為『我不喜歡你不喜歡我』，因為我在意你的看法，多過於縮小我自己與靈魂差距。

不知不覺中，我訓練自己在乎你對我的反應，而不是在乎我自己的反應。

那麼，我的靈魂怎麼看你？

嗯，我的靈魂希望你的生活變好，祂們明白你今天很不順。我的靈魂也知道，朋友你今天不順，也會使我開心不起來。

在你不愉快的日子裡，你已經放了一大堆東西在你的幸福圈中。你和我的靈魂已經在那位置和那些東西在一起了，我想我也會去那位置。

我會想像你的世界變得更好，我會去理解你只是因為仍處在未完成的位置，所以才會掙扎。」

 
❤️你們是充滿愛的人，你們必須去愛！你們每個人都是兩頭怪物，靈魂那頭愛著他們！
 
😇 所以，若你們問靈魂：「靈魂，我想知道祢們是怎麼想的？」那麼你們將會與靈魂進行一場嚴肅的對話。
 
「靈魂，祢們愛他們？為什麼祢們愛他們？祢們沒看到他們怎麼對我嗎？祢們沒看到他們怎麼對待他們妻子嗎？祢們沒看到他們做了什麼嗎？」

靈魂會幫助你們理解，祂們會說：「不，我們不看那些，我們將頭轉向另一邊！我們不注意那些方面，我們承認那些存在，那些差異對比會塑造出一個真正的人、形塑出一個真正成長的人。但我們始終只專注在每個人終將成為的那個充滿愛、進步、進化、修正後的存在體。」

然後，靈魂會對親愛的你們說：「你困在差異對比。」

你們知道嗎 - - - 你們當初來人世的意圖是想要透過差異對比來幫助自己擴展成長，你們沒打算敲鑼打鼓那些『不要的東西』來捍衛或證明自己擁有『想要的東西』的合理性。你們聽到了嗎？？？

♓️ 但很多人類都這樣，即使埃希特（Esther Hicks）也這樣。她會糾結/困在某些讓她不舒服的事，然後說：「哦，亞伯拉罕，祢們必須同意我這次的看法，祢們知道我是對的，祢們知道我是對的！祢們有看到發生什麼事！」但是我們從不附和她。我們從不、也永遠不附和她。因為如果埃希特想和我們玩在一起，她必須來到我們的位置，我們永遠不會去那個黑暗的位置和她交流。

人類體內的生命源頭能量從不去那裡！如果你們要感覺「好」，你們沒別的選擇，你們只能走向「好」的所在。這就是為什麼「引導系統」被稱為「引導系統」，明白嗎！如同你們汽車導航系統，可以引導你們去你們設定的目標位置。

♓️ 埃希特輸入汽車導航她要去的目的地。如果導航說：「妳已經到了。」

埃希特會說：「不，我還沒到。」

導航說：「妳已經到了，我們認為到這裡就夠好了。」你們不會想要這種導航系統！你們要導航系統指引你們道路，前往你們要去的地方。

而且那條道路會感覺越來越好、越來越好、越來越好、越來越好！總是會感覺越來越好！

🧔🏻‍♂️提問人：但我身邊有這麼多人，每個人對每件事都有意見時，我該怎麼辦？

👥亞伯拉罕：你可以後退一步看著他們。

你知道嗎？你退得越遠，他們看起來就越好。

♓️埃希特從研討會現場的攝影機發現這一點。她說：「往後退，往後退，往後退。退後！退後！退後！」退得越遠，看起來就越好。

其實那些意見都不是關於你。雖然他們看著你，雖然他們在和你說話，或他們在談論你，但其實真的都與你無關。每個人都只是試圖使自己感覺稍微好一點而已。

如果你不把他們的意見當作針對你，如果你退一步，先對自己說：「這與我無關，這只是他們正在縮小與自己靈魂的差距。」

然後你可以回應他們：

「嘿，別對我生氣。我知道你是誰，好事即將降臨在你身上，你比自己想像的更聰明。

你說我認為自己聰明，或許我是這麼認為。或許我真的聰明，或許我沒這麼聰明。

但你知道嗎？我認為你也很聰明。我見識過你應對事情，你是我見過最聰明的人之一。我看過你做這個、這個和這個，都使我印象深刻。」

如果你私底下，比如在自己床上或在自己腦海中練習那些話；

如果你習慣即使沒很多優點也能找出優點，

那麼你會在自己腦海中激活那些準備好的優點，並且感覺到他們的優點。

這樣當你與某人相處時，你會開始向他們反照出他們真正是誰。

然後你知道什麼會發生嗎？因為你的靈魂只看他們的優點，所以當你開始告訴某人他的優點，你立即與自己靈魂一致！

猜猜後來怎樣？你和你靈魂將你們的光照耀在他們身上。

你知道嗎？當你和靈魂一起向別人散發光芒時，他們感覺更好，而不是更糟。

如果你身邊的人感覺越來越糟、越來越糟、越來越糟，那是因為你做了跟他們一樣的事情 - - - 你正在指責他們的行為。

🧔🏻‍♂️提問者：很糟糕，我不要那樣。我學著說「我要」，我學著不用否定用詞，但這真的很難。

👥亞伯拉罕：試著用柔軟、溫和的詞彙。

我們明白，有時候你需要對身邊的人保持敏感。

也就是說，一位明智的老師會了解學生的位置。

因此，當你知道一些東西，並且想讓他們知道，但你說的他們無法理解時，他們會不耐煩。

所以稍微放慢步調，不要急於表達你要他們知道的東西。

不要試圖回答別人還沒想要問的問題，因為那是無效行為，而且你會介入他們的經驗，你不該如此，明白嗎？

🧲因此最重要的是，自己努力對齊靈魂，然後看吸引力法則如何將那些已經為你做好準備的人帶到你面前。

🧲 過好自己的生活，盡可能讓自己感覺良好，我們向你保證 - - - 吸引力法則必定會將那些為你做好準備的人帶到你面前！

當你被一個、兩個或許多行為舉止相同的人圍繞時，你的振動中一定有某些東西呼喚他們到你身邊。

你說：「對，沒錯，但我不喜歡這樣。」

我們會說：「既然你知道自己不要什麼，那你要什麼？」

你說：「我不要他們插手管我的事。」

我們會說：「那你要什麼？」

1、我要知道「自己是誰的人」圍繞著我。


2、我要幸福美好的證據圍繞著我。


3、我要會互相支持彼此的人圍繞著我。


4、我要會看優點的人圍繞著我。


5、我要大部分時間感覺良好的人圍繞著我。


6、我要遇見那些想知道我知道的東西的人，我可以用柔和而微妙的方式為他們提供解決方案。


7、我要成為一個不斷進步的榜樣。我不僅要成為孩子們的好榜樣，我也想成為自己的好榜樣。


8、我要成為我生來就意圖成為的人。


9、我要更常容易地與靈魂振動保持一致。當我與靈魂振動保持一致時，我要感覺到生活輕鬆容易。


10、我要有更多時間知道我的幸福美好，我要非常知道自己的幸福美好。

11、我要常與自己的幸福美好一致，而且常與靈魂保持連結，這樣生命源頭可以更頻繁地透過我回應那些提出問題的人。

12、當他們問問題時，我要站足夠遠，那麼我就可以用柔軟、溫和的方式回應他們，這樣他們就能比較容易聽進去。


13、我要人們感覺到「我是愛」，而不是與愛不ㄧ致。

14、我要事情不斷發生，我要持續過真實的生活。

15、我要不斷有人來到我身邊，成為我振動的實現指標。當討厭的人在我面前，他們也是我實現振動的指標。

當討厭的人在你面前，他們是你實現振動的指標。他們不是在對你做什麼，他們只是「你對自己做了什麼」的指標。

他們是你振動的指標，這就是他們出現意義！

你可以說：「哦，親愛的指標，我不喜歡你展現出來的樣子。我想我要提升自己的振動，讓吸引力法則帶來不同的指標。」

所以，你們看，吸引力法則就是這樣運作的，發生在你們周圍的一切，都與你們腦海正在活躍的振動同步。那些都是親愛的振動指標！

現在是適合吃午餐的休息時間。

🧔🏻‍♂️提問人：謝謝祢們。（現場歡呼、掌聲響起）

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50-525. Don’t Take Criticism Personally

 

YouTube: https://youtu.be/KscAzCn2xdI?si=4hOfQQDkcFaUtzmo

 

👥Abraham: All right, so someone criticizes you for some behavior.

 

🧔🏻‍♂️Questioner: Yeah, for some behavior.  

 

👥Abraham: And as you are criticized, you feel bad.  Now why do you think you feel bad.

 

🧔🏻‍♂️Questioner: Because it’s not the truth.  

 

👥Abraham: But you see, you think you feel bad because they are misunderstanding you and judging you incorrectly.  But the reason you feel bad is because you are judging them about their judging.

 

🧔🏻‍♂️Questioner: Yeah. 

 

👥Abraham: Let’s back up and go after that again.  So, let’s say someone’s having a very bad day and you don’t know why, but they are, they usually do.  

And now you are interacting with them in some way, and now their bad days sort of spilling over into your experience.

 

And let’s say, you were feeling pretty good before their bad day spilled over into your experience, so now you are not having as good of a day as you were before.   And it’s their fault because they are spilling over into your experience.

 

Well, the reason you feel bad is because you’ve just given them your power.  

You’ve said, “I can’t feel good as long as you feel like that.  And I can’t control the way your wife treats you, I can’t control the fact that you’re deep in debt, and your mother is sick, and your children don’t like you, can’t control all of those things in your life that are spilling over into my experience.   And so, I feel bad because you feel bad.”

And we are saying to you the reason that you feel bad is because you’re letting that condition run your life.  A condition over which you have no control.  

 

So, if you could stand back and say,

“Wait a minute, I’m not feeling bad because you don’t like me.  I’m feeling bad because I don’t like you not liking me.  I’m feeling bad because I care more about what you think than about closing my gap.  

Somehow I’ve trained myself to care about your response to me, instead of my response to me.  

Now what would my Inner Being think about you?  

 

Well, my Inner Being wants your life to go better and my Inner Being understands that you’re having a bad day.  And my Inner Being knows that in the bad day that you’ve been living, friend, that’s making me unhappy.  

In the bad days you’ve been living, you’ve put a whole bunch of stuff in your vibrational escrow.  And my Inner Being and your Inner Being are over there with those things.  I think I’ll go over there too. 

 

I think I will imagine your world getting better.  I think I will understand that you’re just flailing about because you’re out there on that raw and ragged edge.”

 

❤️You are a lover, you must love!  The other head of the two-headed monster loves them.  

 

😇 So when you say, “Inner Being, I want to know what you think?”  You are gonna to have some serious conversations.

 

“You love them?  Why?  You love them?  But did you see how they treat me?  Do you see how they treat their wives?  Do you see what they are doing?”  

 

And Source within you would say, “No, we see not that, we see not that!  We turn the other cheek.  We do not give our attention to those aspects.  We acknowledge that they exist and out of that contrast is born the true person, the true becoming person.  But we always give our undivided attention to the loving progressive evolving amended being that everyone is becoming.”

 

And your dear heart is what your Inner Being would say to you and help you to understand, “You are stuck in the contrast.”  

 

You see - - - you wanted the contrast to help you to expand, but you never intended to beat the drum of “what is not wanted” in order to defend or justify “the having of what is wanted”.  Did you hear that？？？

 

♓️ That’s what so many people do.  We see even with Esther.  She’ll get on something that bothers her.  And she will say, “Oh, Abraham, you got to give me this one.  You know I’m right, you know I’m right!  You saw what happened!  You know I’m right.”  But we never give it to her.  We never ever, ever give it to her.  If Esther wants to play with us, Esther has to come to where we are.  We will never go to that dark place to play with her.  

The Source with you never goes there!  You’ve got no choice if you are to “feel good” other than to go to “where the good” is.  That’s why guidance is guidance.  You see!   If your guidance system in your vehicle, if you program in where you want to go.  

♓️ Esther programs in the destination, and if the guidance system says, “You’re already there.”  

 

Esther would say, “No, I’m not.”  

 

“Yeah, you are already there.  We think it is good enough.”  You don’t want that kind of guidance!  You want the guidance to show you the way to where you want to be.  

And it’s always a trail of something that feels better and better and better and better and better and better and better!  Always feels better!

 

🧔🏻‍♂️Questioner: What do you do when you’re surrounded by...  I mean, with so many people round you, and everyone has such a strong opinion about things.  

 

👥Abraham: Step back from it a little bit.  

You know, the further back you step, the better they all look.  

 

♓️ Esther found that out about the camera.  “Get it back, get it back, get it back.”  She said, “Back off!  Back off!  Back off!”   The further back you go, the better you look.  

 

It’s not about you.  They are looking at you, and they’re talking to you, and they’re talking about you, but it’s not about you.  Everybody’s just trying to feel a little better.  

 

And if you could not take it so personally, if you could stand back and think to yourself, “This isn’t about me.  It’s about them trying to figure out how to close the gap.”   

And then you could say something back to them is, 

“Hey, don’t be upset with me.   I know who you are.  Good things are coming to you.  You are smarter than you know.  

You are saying that I think I’m smart and maybe I do.   And maybe I’m smart and maybe I’m not.  

But you know what?  I think you’re smart too.  I’ve seen how you handle yourself.  You’re one of the smartest people I know.  I was impressed when I saw you do this and this and this.”

 

And if you’ve practiced those things when you are in the privacy of your own bed or in the privacy of your own mind, 

if you’ve begun the habit of looking for the positive aspects even in those places where there aren’t that many positive aspects, 

so that you activate within you some ready positive aspect feelings, 

and you get abide with someone and you start reflecting back to them some of who they are.  

 

Do you know what will happen?  Because your Inner Being only sees their positive aspects.  When you start talking to someone about positive aspects, even though you’ve worked hard to see them, you come right into alignment with who you are!

And now guess what?  You and the Source within you are shining your light on them. 

 

And do you know that when you and the Source within you are shinning your light on someone else, they feel better, they don’t feel worse.  

 

If people are feeling worse and worse and worse around you, it’s because you’re doing the same thing - - - that you are here accusing them of doing.  

 

🧔🏻‍♂️Questioner: Terrible.  I don’t want that.  I learn to say “I want.”   I learned to use to remove words of negation, which is so hard.

 

👥Abraham: Use softer words.  

We understand that sometimes you have to be sensitive about what those around you.  

 

In other words, a teacher is very wise when he understands where his student is.  

So when you know things that you’d like them to know, and you are saying things that they don’t know, they just get more and more annoyed at you, because they want to know and don’t know.

So sort of ratchet it back a little bit, don’t be so open about what you’re wanting them to know.  

🧲 But most of all, work on your own alignment and then watch how Law of Attraction brings you people that are ready for you.  

 

Don’t try to answer question that people aren’t asking when it’s like pushing a noodle.  When you offer an answer to a question that they haven’t even figured out how to ask yet, you are annoying to them.  You are budding into their experience in a way that you do not belong, you see!

 

🧲 So just live your life.  Live it as well as you can.  Feel as good as you can.  And it is our promise to you - - - the Law of Attraction will bring those to you who are ready for you.  

 

When you are surrounded by one or two or a lot of people who are behaving the same way, there’s something going in on in your vibration that’s calling them to you. 

 

And so you say, “Yeah, that’s right.  And I don’t like it.”  

 

And we say, “Well, you know what you don’t want, what is it that you do what?”  

 

“Well, I don’t want them on my case.” 

 

“What is it that you do what?”

 

1. I want people who know who they are to surround me.  

2. I want evidence of well-being to surround me.  

3. I want people who are supporting one another.  

4. I want people who are looking for positive aspects.  

5. I want to be around people who feel good more of the time.  

6. I want to meet people who want to know what I know that I can offer solutions to them in soft and subtle ways.  

7. I want to live a never-ending example of improvement.  I want to be not only a good example to my children, but I want to feel the good example to myself.  

8. I want to be the person that I was born to be.  

9. I want to more often easily line up with who I am.   I want to feel the ease of life as I come into vibrational alignment with who I am.  

10. I want to know my well-being more of the time.  I want to know my well-being so much.

11. And be in alignment with my well-being so much and in connection with who I really am so much that the broader me can speak more often to those who are asking.  

12. I want to be far enough for the fry that when they are asking, I’m able to say to them in a soft way that they can be more receptive of.  

13. I want people to feel the love that I am, rather than the contradiction of that love.  

14. I want things to keep happening, and I want to keep living life in a real way.  

15. I want people to continue to come to me and to be my manifestational indicator.  When someone’s in my face, they’re my manifestational indicator.”

 

When you got people in your face, they are manifestational indicators of your vibration.  They’re not doing something to you, they’re indicating something that you’re doing to yourself.   

They’re indicators of your vibration, that’s who they are!

 

So you say, “Oh, blessed indicator, I don’t like what you’re indicating, I think I’ll shift my vibration and bring some other indicators.”  

 

You see, it’s always the case, everything that happens around you is up to speed with what’s active within you.  Blessed vibrational indicators!

Good time for a segment of lunch.  

 

🧔🏻‍♂️Questioner: Thank you.  （現場歡呼、掌聲響起)


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