520、尋找那個就是「愛」的自己，「愛自己」自然會顯現
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👥亞伯拉罕：很多人的「愛自己」逐漸消失，是因為拿自己跟別人比較 - - - 比較自己的渴望跟他們的渴望、比較自己擁有的跟他們擁有的。這是肇致「愛自己」被消蝕的原因。
增進愛自己、擁抱愛自己、真正愛自己的方式，就是只專注在「自己振動」與「靈魂振動」的相對位置。
如果有什麼是自己的功課，那肯定是透過：
一個想法又一個想法，
一個經驗又一個經驗，
一個記憶又一個記憶，
一個聊天又一個聊天，
一個閱歷又一個閱歷，
持續練習往好處想、往好處想、往好處想，好讓自己感覺好一點、再好一點、再好一點。
⭕️你們終會明白：縱使「被愛」感覺很好，但在整個宇宙中，沒有什麼能比「去愛」感覺更好。
我們想用其它字詞來取代「去愛」這字詞：
1️⃣當你們對某東西*著迷時，此時你們振動對齊靈魂，這幾乎等同「去愛」。
2️⃣當你們欣賞自己或別人時，這幾乎等同「去愛」。
因為欣賞他們優點的那些想法，如同一波波漣漪對齊靈魂能量，因此你們加入我們無形，一起欣賞你們看到的人。
因此，當你們意識到自己是在身體之中的感知者，這猶如你們拿著一台望遠鏡向外觀看，看著東西*。
無論你們透過望遠鏡感知到什麼，都會產生一個「自己振動」與「靈魂振動」差距的情緒反應。
🔴也就是說，如果每個人和自己靈魂之間沒有這個振動差距關係，人類根本不會產生任何情緒、感覺！
因此，當你們意圖向外找東西「去愛」時，無論是：
愛這張地毯、
愛這些花、
愛這環境、
愛這很棒的空氣、
愛自己的晚餐、
愛這戒指、
愛這手錶、
愛靈活的手指、
愛任何自己欣賞的東西*。
你們通常先從容易欣賞的東西*開始，然後進展到到明顯值得欣賞的東西*。
當你們開始欣賞東西*時，你們開始振動對齊靈魂和「去愛」比較容易的東西*
🪞但是，朋友們，對大多數人類來說，全世界你們最不愛的那個，就是你們鏡子裡看到的那個人！我們無形不要這樣，也不應該這樣。
⭕️我們建議你們今天回家這麼做 - - - 坐在鏡子前面，看著鏡中自己的眼睛深處，意圖看到靈魂也正從眼睛深處回看自己，說：
「因為亞伯拉罕ㄧ直提到祢們，我知道祢們在那裡，我大概知道祢們對我的感覺。我要尋找祢們，直到我發掘祢們為止。我會待在這裡，直到我發掘覺察自己、欣賞自己的感覺。」
從你們現在的位置，我們可以感覺到你們可以很快到達那個位置。
我們要告訴你們一件最重要的事情 - - - 你們認為正在尋找的「愛自己」，並不是尋找「對自己的愛」，而是學習認知到你們「自己本身就是愛」。
這之間是有差別的，「愛我」與「我是愛」是不同的。
「我是愛」才是真正的你們。
當你們是「我是愛」時，你們很容易「去愛」A、B、C、D、甲、乙、丙、丁、這個、那個．．．．。
當你們正在愛時，不管你們愛哪個人事物，都變得無關緊要了。
究竟有什麼差別？什麼原因會讓你們執著於愛的焦點是哪個？那有什麼區別？
這就猶如雖然你們已經正在享用一頓非常棒的餐點，卻因為無法同時享用別的餐點，所以一邊吃一邊感到不快樂。
只要你們覺得自己正在享用的餐點很棒，那麽是否可以同時享用其它餐點就不重要了。
同樣地，不管你們愛的焦點什麼，只要你們感覺愛就是真正的自己，明白嗎？（現場掌聲響起）
當你們越刻意承認「愛」是自己本質，你們就越會設定意圖去發掘它，並且在自己所到之處尋找它。
你們越去尋找，就越會發掘到；越發掘到，就越會繼續尋找。
🔴直到有一天，你們會成為這樣的人：你們是穩定的存有，從未失去平衡，每一件和自己相關的事，都是由自己主導。明白嗎？
我們要你們像我們愛你們一樣愛自己。
當你們感覺到愛的時候，不管你們當時正在專注什麼人事物，有什麼差別？
當你們意識到別人或你們不愛自己時，你們就無法發掘「愛自己」。
因此，我們想為你們建構一座橋樑 - - - 任何時候有人傷你們的心，是因為你們振動與靈魂振動有差距，這時如果追求「愛自己」是方向錯誤。所以如果我們是人類，我們不會尋找「愛自己」，我們會尋找那個「就是『愛』的自己」。
也就是說，與其對一個你們愛的人說：「我要你愛我。」
我們寧可開始訓練自己的渴望為：「我喜歡愛著你，我希歡愛著你的感覺，但你對我的感覺無關緊要。」
有位朋友氣憤地說：「亞伯拉罕，祢們根本不在乎我的愛人是否會來到我身邊！」
我們說：「完全正確！我們要你們建立一個感覺自己非常棒的振動，而且他來不來都無所謂。然後，他自然而然就會出現。」
換句話說，當你們建立那樣的振動時，宇宙必須讓你們與擁有完全相同感覺的某個人配對，明白嗎？
我們不要你們以發生什麼、實現什麼，來作為產生情緒、感覺的標準。這也是我們這次研討會談論的主要內容。
很多人告訴我們：「好吧，亞伯拉罕，我會練習祢們教的，我會做任何能調整我振動的方法，進而實現我想要的。」
我們說：「難道你們完全沒聽懂我們教的嗎？！我們告訴你們這些，不是為了使你們實現任何人事物，而是為了讓你們達到感覺非常好的振動位置，使得實現已經不那麼重要了！」
可能有人會擔心地說：「喔，那麼，我想要的可能不會實現了。」
我們說：「我們根本不是這麽說的！」
我們是說：「『實現渴望』給你們對齊靈魂能量的理由，那才是真正的生活！『愛自己』就會自然而然地顯現岀來。」明白了嗎？
你們尋找「去愛」的理由，但在你們環境中，「去愛」的理由無處不在。
你們可以對自己這麼說：
「我一直以來追求著一種更完整、更廣泛的愛的感覺，原來我的靈魂一直耐心地等待我轉向祂們，從未不耐煩，總是愛著我。
儘管出於某些原因，我現在不太喜歡自己。我知道我的靈魂一點都沒有偏離對我的欣賞。
我的靈魂不會停止喜歡我，永遠不會、也絕不會這麼做！」
靈魂一直對你們保持著絕對的欣賞。當你們知道這一點，也許對你們有幫助。
給自己多點時間休息，或許能幫助你們承認 - - - 我的一切事情，甚至「愛自己」這件事，都正處於完美的位置。
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💖💓🩷溫故知新：
300、愛❤️Love
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/2252631378117134/
490、去哪裡找愛？
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/pfbid02GnNXd3YWtNnwbAHjBP4UYZ27csx45bvt8b5WLJxFicKk838F5275TEMYUs4BSHLl
484、找「你愛的人」自己有主控權，而且靈魂與你齊心協力
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/pfbid02QGfDzztiDHUxx2MVFBXLYRsJwhB3MFLU1kcXgAQpBA9moSqBj6yPhn9DgNrkuBvtl
476、橋接自己信念
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/707438231422281
469、要達到控制自己生活、變強大、有自信，就要明白「一切都是被振動頻率邀請而來」
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/pfbid02DZP8N3VXTGQukQqAZuxMoPagDryuDCUTS2p8RXwRsCcT7XhfttoFqKjtDjXtyD6Rl
【備註】：亞伯拉罕教導中的「東西*」指：地球上有形的一切和人類無形的想法、事情。
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46-520. This Is How You Allow Yourself Self-Love
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👥Abraham: What has caused an eroding of self-love within so many of you is comparing - - - you and what you want with others and what they want, and you and what you’ve got with others and what they’ve got. That’s what causes an eroding of self-love.
What causes an inclusion of self-love, an embracing of self-love, a loving of self, is having your eye only on these two vibrational points of relativity.
Where you
thought by thought,
experience by experience,
conversation by conversation,
memory by memory,
experience by experience,
just train yourself into something that feels better and better and better and better and better. If there was ever an inside job. It’s got to be that.
⭕️When you finally get it that: While it feels good “to be loved”, nothing feels better in all of the Universe than “to love”.
We want to replace the word “love” with some other words:
1️⃣We want to say that when you are fascinated by something, you are in that vibration of connection with who you are. That’s as close to love as it gets.
2️⃣When you are appreciating yourself or someone else, that’s as close to it as it gets.
Appreciation about them and ripples of connected energy joins us in our appreciation of that person you see.
So, as you realize that here you are in this body a perceiver and you got your telescope out there so to speak, and you’re looking out and you’re looking at something.
And whatever you are perceiving through your telescope is generating an emotional response in vibrational relationship.
🔴In other words, you would have no feelings at all if there were not this vibrational relationship between where you and who you really are!
And so, as you look out with the intention of finding love and so let it be：
love of this rug,
and love of these flowers,
and love of this environment,
and love of this wonderful air,
and love of what I’m having for dinner,
and love of this ring,
and love of this watch,
and love of these flexible fingers,
and love of whatever I can feel appreciation of.
And as you just begin to tune yourself first to the things that are easy to appreciate, and then to the things that are obvious to appreciate.
And then as you begin looking for things to appreciate, you begin to tune yourself into a vibrational alignment with who you really are about things that are easier for you to love.
🪞Because friends, we don’t want it to be this way, it shouldn’t be this way, but for most of you the hardest focal point on the planet for you to love, is that one you see reflected back in the mirror!
⭕️Go home today - - - and sit before a mirror, and sit there and look into the depths of your eyes, and look with the intention of seeing your Inner Being looking back and you, and say,
“I know you’re in there, and I have an inkling of how you feel about me, because Abraham has been talking about it. And I’m just gonna look for you until I find you. I’m gonna stay here until I find that feeling of awareness of me and appreciation of me that I’m looking for.”
And from where you are, we can feel that you can get there very quickly.
But the most important thing that we are saying to you is - - - this self-love that you think you’re looking for is not love of self, it’s love that is self.
And there’s a difference. And there’s a difference between loving me and being me who loves.
And it’s being me who loves that is really you.
And when you’re me who loves, it’s easy to love that one, and that one, and that one, and that one, and that one, and that one, and that one, and that one, and that one.
And then it becomes irrelevant what your object of love is if you’re loving.
What difference does it make? What is the reason the focal point for the love that you’re feeling? What possible difference does it make?
That would be like eating a really wonderful meal and while you’re eating it being unhappy that you can’t be eating that one, and that one, and that one, and that one, and that one.
Doesn’t matter which meal you’re eating as long as the meal you’re eating feels wonderful.
And doesn’t matter what the focal point of your love is, as long as love that you’re feeling is the love that really is you, you see! （現場掌聲響起)
And the more you do it deliberately and acknowledge that is who I am, then the more you demand it of yourself and demand is too strong of word, but the more you set your intention to find that and the more you look for it everywhere you go.
And the more you look for it, the more you find it. And the more you find it, the more you look for it.
🔴Until soon you just become it: And then you become this stable being who is never off your balance. Everything that has everything to do with you, you are in control of, you see.
We want you to love you like we love you.
But in the meantime, what difference does it make what the object of your attention is when you’re feeling love?
In your awareness of not loving self, you can’t find self-love.
And so, we’re just trying to build a bridge for you - - - In other words, anytime somebody hurts your feelings, it is because you’re in a different vibration than who you really are. And so, this quest for self-love, we think is down the rabbit hole. We wouldn’t be looking for self-love. We’d be looking for the part of self that does love.
In other words, rather than saying to someone that we love, “I want you to love me.”
We would begin training ourselves into a desire that says, “I love loving you. I love the feeling of loving you. And how you feel about me is irrelevant. I love the feeling of loving you.”
And then what begin to happen it’s like our friend who got so angry at us, says, “Abraham, I don’t think you care if my lover ever comes to me!”
We said, “That’s exactly right! We just want you form a vibration that makes you feel so wonderful that it doesn’t matter, but then he cannot not come.”
In other words, when you find that vibration the Universe has to match you up with somebody feels exactly that way, you see.
But we don’t want you to let what’s happening in terms of manifestation be the criteria for how you feel. And that really is what we were wanting to bring this gathering round to discuss.
Because so many people say, “Okay, Abraham, I’ll play your silly games. I’ll do your processes. I’ll do whatever I can do to bring myself to the place of offering the vibration that will get me to the manifestation that I want.”
And we say, “Have you heard nothing from us?! It isn’t getting you to the manifestation that we are teaching you all of this. It is getting you the place of feeling so good that the manifestation doesn’t matter!”
Then you worry and say, “Oh, so, I’m not maybe going to get the manifestation.”
We say, “That’s not what we’re saying at all!”
We are saying, “‘The desire for the manifestation’ is what gives you the reason to want to connect to the energy that is really you. That is the true living of life! And that selflove is evident then.” You see.
You are looking for reason to love. And in this environment, there is so much abundance of that.
“I’m reaching for a fuller more encompassing sensation of love and Source’s over there patiently, never for a moment impatient, always loving me.”
Here’s a good thing to say to yourself. “Even though for whatever reason, I don’t like myself very much right now. I know that I have not caused Source to deviate in Source’s appreciation of me at all.
I have not convinced Source not to like me. Source will never ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever do that!”
Source maintains its absolute appreciation of you. And as you know that, maybe it will help you.
Give yourself a little more of a break, maybe it will help you to acknowledge - - - I’m in the perfect place relative to everything, even relative to selflove.
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💖💓🩷此篇中文翻譯在「Abraham-Hicks in Chinese亞伯拉罕說吸引力法則-人生的秘密」編號520、對齊靈魂之後，自己「愛自己」、別人「愛自己」是可預期的
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/pfbid0rP4gLyb2iuAsjkTdgAPmHoKjYGYVuoeptMufvbjUdQHdDT5wmvtiHE7aHsZodT3Ll
💖💓🩷英翻中時與ChatGPT的討論：https://chatgpt.com/share/6742ccc0-35b8-8013-a308-490b0ddd99f7
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