519、「自私」、「無私」是顧及自己和所有人
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🧑🏻提問人：我知道祢們鼓勵人們要自私。但我來自日本，那裡的背景使「自私」這詞有強烈的負向含義。
👥亞伯拉罕：那麼我們換個詞吧。
🧑🏻提問人：好。
👥亞伯拉罕：那麼我們用「對齊靈魂」這詞，也就是「對齊靈魂，然後⋯」。
我們一直告訴你們：
「如果你們沒自私地轉向靈魂，那麽你們真的沒任何東西可以給任何人。」
「如果你們沒轉向靈魂補充自己，你們就會枯竭耗盡。」
若「自私」這詞不合適，那麼就使用這詞的精神。
🔴當我們說「自私」，意思是：
「願意轉向靈魂」、
「願意成為完整的自己」、
「願意成為那個完整、對齊、有力量、專注、充滿愛心、樂於給予、欣賞、且樂於助人的自己」。
❌不是犧牲自己，
⭕️而是成為對齊的自己、強大的自己、完整的自己。
妳可以感覺不同之處嗎？
🧑🏻提問人：可以。但我目前仍停留在理解字面意思的階段，我發現有時候很難實踐。
👥亞伯拉罕：嗯，事情就是這樣的，這界線有些模糊。
♓️對埃希特（Esther Hicks）來說，沒有什麼比她幫助別人、她為他人帶來價值更讓她開心的了。她非常喜愛這種感覺。
因此，遇到別人需要幫忙時，她非常樂意提供協助。而且當她提供協助時，她真的感覺非常好。所以這是不是埃希特決定自己要「自私」呢？
對埃希特來說，這確實是「自私」，因為：
✨哇，那感覺真的太棒了！
✨哇，宇宙安排得非常巧妙！
✨有趣的是，她怎麽遇到的！
✨有趣的是，展開多麼容易！
✨最後結果很好！
所以，埃希特真的在做這事、那事、這些事、那些事時，度過了美好時光。
她真的不喜歡別人評論她的事，因為他們每次都誤解。
你們必須建立與這股創造萬物的能量之間的關係，並且以你們感到舒服的方式讓這能量流動，而且你們不能在意別人如何看待你們的事。
在每個社會的社會化過程中，都可能出現困惑的情況。
想想不同社會之間的差異 - - - 「 你們講究禮貌的社會」和「很多與你們相反、在棍子另一端的社會」。然而，沒有對錯之分。
♓️埃希特很享受看運動，所以她喜歡運動的比喻。
當她看她支持的籃球隊比賽時，她知道球員要遵守比賽規則。它是協議，真的！
它不是宇宙力量協議，也不是吸引力法則協議。
這協議就是如果球員越線，就會犯規，所以球員必須待在球場上。
有時候，越線感覺微不足道、根本沒關係。但確實有關係，因為有這協議。
因此，當你們出生在一個社會，有點像是選擇加入那球賽。
也就是，你們選擇在那環境規範下進行個人擴展。
然而，你們不需要為了生活而放棄對齊靈魂。
你們可以成為他們要求你們成為的人，但自己內心清楚知道，你們完全是在取悅自己。
如果你們決心讓自己的禮貌和助人行為在情緒數值表的上半部「好感覺」，那麼你們就不會內心交戰，也不會冒犯他人。
幾乎每個覺得事情不順的人，都是因為他們在情緒數值表的下半部做事情，他們生氣、害怕、內疚或責備他人。
也有些人因為他們沒轉入、投入、打開與靈魂連結，他們沒在情緒數值表的上半部，但仍遵守政治或社會規範，所以他們在這些規範中感覺痛苦。他們表面上很有禮貌，但內心痛苦。
我們認為，你們可以既有禮貌又充滿喜悅。但是如果你們不在乎自己，你們就無法做到既有禮貌又充滿喜悅。
❌我們不認為你們的社會規範是「要有禮貌並且痛苦」。
⭕️我們認為它是「要有禮貌」，而且我們認為你們仍然可以從中做出選擇。
❌我們不認為他們說：「完全別顧及自己。」
⭕️我們認為他們說：「顧及自己和所有人。」而且這也是你們靈魂的方式。
當你們真的與靈魂連結時，你們無法不幫助自己遇見的每個人。這也是人類對「無私」的終極描述。
或許我們可以在這裏為妳定義「自私」。那麼妳就能理解了。
🔴終極的「自私」，就是非常對齊靈魂。成為完整的自己之後，你們顧及自己時，也顧及所有人。因此，你們的「自私」涵蓋所- 有-人，你們是在為所有人「自私」。
讓我們用一個巧妙的方式來說這句話 - - -
【終極的自私】就是完全的自私，
【終極的無私】也是完全的自私，
因為直到你們轉向靈魂，你們才會用這方式對待他人。
此外，「自私」也是對齊「愛」，這是它的本質。
你們非常在乎與「愛」保持一致，因為你們愛自己、欣賞自己，所以你們要愛、欣賞也流向所有人。
我們認為如果他們知道妳是這樣的人，他們會喜歡的，不是嗎？
🧑🏻提問人：是的。
👥亞伯拉罕：這解釋可以嗎？
🧑🏻提問人：謝謝祢們。
👥亞伯拉罕：真的很好。
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🟢溫故知新：
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45-519. Being Selfish is The Best Thing You Can
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🧑🏻Questioner: I know that you encourage people to be selfish. But I came from the background (Japan) that selfish has a strong negative connotation.
👥Abraham: Let’s use another word.
🧑🏻Questioner: OK.
👥Abraham: Let’s use the word “be aligned”. Be aligned and then.
The phrase we’ve used is,
“If you’re not selfish enough to tune into Source energy, then you don’t have anything really to give anyone.”
“If you’re not willing to be replenished, then you get depleted.”
But if the word doesn’t work, then use the spirit of the word.
🔴So, by “selfish” we mean:
“willing to tune to self”,
“willing to be my whole self”,
“willing to be my whole aligned powerful focused loving giving appreciative helpful self”.
❌Not sacrificial self.
⭕️Aligned self, powerful self, whole self,
Feel the difference?
🧑🏻Questioner: Yes. But I am still in the state of maybe intellectually understand. But sometimes I find myself that still difficult practicing it.
👥Abraham: Well, here’s the thing. The line is blurry.
♓️There isn’t anything that Esther likes more than to be of help to someone, to be of value to someone. She likes how it feels so much.
So, while on the one hand, she is helping someone repair their teeth because they can’t do it otherwise. But it feels so good to her to do it. And so, who gets to decide is that selfishness?
Well, it is to Esther, because:
✨Oh man, did it feel good!
✨And oh, wasn’t it wonderful the way the Universe lined it up!
✨And wasn’t it interesting how it occurred to her!
✨And wasn’t it interesting how easily it unfolded!
✨And wasn’t it wonderful how it turned out!
And so, oh the self that is Esther really had a good time in that and that and that and that.
And she really doesn’t like it very much when someone watching from the outside tried to assign a narrative to those kinds of things, because they misunderstand every time.
You have to establish your relationship with this energy that creates worlds. And you have to flow it in the way that is comfortable to you. And you can’t worry about how others see it happen.
In the socialization of every society, there is the potential for confusion.
Think about the differences in societies - - - “The politeness of your society” and “really the opposite end of that stick in a lot of societies”. And yet, there isn’t a right or a wrong in it.
♓️Esther likes sports analogies because she’s enjoying sports so much.
But she watches her basketball team and she knows that there are rules that they play by. It’s agreements, really!
It’s not Universal force agreements. It’s not these things that we’re talking about even the Law of Attraction agreement.
It’s that if you step outside that line, that’s a penalty. You’ve got to stay on the court.
And sometimes the stepping outside is so insignificant that it really shouldn’t matter. But it does, because the agreement is such.
So, when you are born into a society, is sort of like choosing to play in that ball game.
You’re choosing to have your personal expansion within the confines of the rules of that environment.
But you don’t have to give up your alignment in order to live that.
You can be the way they are asking you to be, while in your own knowing you know that you are totally pleasing yourself.
And if you be decided, if you are determined that all of your politeness and helpfulness is coming from you knowing for sure that you’re on the upper half of the emotional scale, you won’t get crosswise of yourself and you won’t offend any of them either.
Almost anyone who finds themselves in a place that isn’t working, is doing it from the lower half of the scale. They’re angry or they’re afraid or they’re guilty or they’re blameful.
So, there are a lot of people they’re not tuned in, tapped in, turned on, they’re not on the upper half scale, but they’re performing in restriction of politics or societal rules, and they’re miserable within them. They’re polite but they’re miserable.
Well, we think that you can be polite and joyful. And if you don’t care about self, you can’t be polite and joyful.
❌And we don’t think that the rules of your society say, “Be polite and miserable.”
⭕️We think they say, “Be polite.” We think you still have choice in that.
❌We don’t think they’re saying, “Have no regard for self whatsoever.”
⭕️We think they are saying, “Have regard for all self.” which is the way your Inner Being is.
You can’t be really tuned in to who you really are and not be helpful to everyone you come across. That’s got to be the ultimate human description of unselfishness.
Maybe we can define selfishness for you and you’ll hear it, because we’ve just accomplished it here together.
🔴The ultimate “selfishness” is being so aligned with Source. Such a total self that you are including all others in your regard for self. Your selfishness extends to everyone, you’re selfish on behalf of all.
Let’s find a clever way of saying it. Don’t repeat this to any of them, they won’t understand. But what we’re saying to you is - - -
“The ultimate selfishness” is to be completely selfish, ultimate selfishness is to be completely selfish.
But we want to add to it “the ultimate selflessness” is to be completely selfish.
Because until you tuned into that, you can’t feel that way about the others.
Let’s call selfishness is alignment with love. That’s what it is!
I care so much to be aligned with love. My care of self is so much about love and appreciation, because I want to flow it to all others.
We think they would like that if they knew that about you, don’t you?
🧑🏻Questioner: Yes.
👥Abraham: Good enough?
🧑🏻Questioner: Thank you.
👥Abraham: Really good.
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