490、去哪裡找愛？
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👥亞伯拉罕：當有人愛妳，把妳當作他關注的對象，並傾注他的愛時，那很美，那感覺真的非常、非常好。但現在，妳立即依賴他和他對妳的注意力。然而妳無法控制他，在妳意識到之前，妳和他都被束縛住了。
👩🏻🦰提問人：這不涉及另一個人，這是因為實際上我原諒了幾個在我早期經驗中傷害過我的人…
👥亞伯拉罕：妳知道什麼是原諒嗎？「原諒」就是妳把注意力從「讓妳遠離幸福圈的事情」轉移。「原諒」使妳的注意力轉移到那些讓妳進入幸福圈的事情上，而不是停留在使妳遠離幸福圈的事情。所以「原諒」只是回到妳的幸福圈，妳成為真正的自己，僅此而已，這就是「原諒」。
👩🏻🦰提問人：對。
👥亞伯拉罕：所以，關鍵真的是與妳「自己怎麼想的」有關，與別人呈現出來給妳的無關。
妳想要有人愛妳嗎？那麼妳在錯誤的地方找愛！
但如果妳要給「自己專注的標的”愛”」，那麼這是正確的方式，因為有太多標的了。
某晚，埃希特（Esther Hicks）正經歷一些令她麻煩的事，她試著努力進入幸福圈。
她的方法是，只專注在她的新枕頭，純粹欣賞她的枕頭。這聽起來荒謬，但枕頭是她最容易關注的標的，它不打呼，也不要求她做任何事。
換句話說，它是一個可以柔和欣賞的標的。而這確實完全是你們進入幸福圈所需要的 - - - 只要找到自己不排斥抗拒而且可以專注的標的。
只要你們維持注意力在這個不排斥抗拒的標的 17 秒，此時就會有與之振動相等的事物加入它，然後如果能夠再維持 17 秒，再維持 17 秒，直到超過第68 秒，此時你們已經進入幸福圈了。但這不意味著你們會停留在幸福圈，這只意味著你們成功地在幸福圈之中。
當你們一次、一次、一次、又一次進入幸福圈，在意識到之前，你們早已感覺自己是一個充滿愛的存在。
我們曾經說過每個主題其實都是兩個主題。這就像拿起一根棍子，在棍子一端，是靈魂已經成為的，活躍在那主題的；在棍子另一端，則恰恰相反。每一條道路都有「想要的感覺」和「目前沒有這感覺的事實」。
當你們「真的要這感覺」時，它的另一端是你們「真的不要這感覺」；當你們「有點要這感覺」時，它的另一端是你們「有點不要這感覺」。兩端的力量相等。
所以，當你們經歷了一些自己想要的，一些是從你們出生那天起就知道的，以及你們從那時起每天都在尋找的，因為你們天生就知道自己應該有怎樣的感覺，並且一直在追求它。
你們也可能會無意中進入幸福圈，因為可能不知道什麼想法、事情或情況的組合讓你們成為進入幸福圈的合作夥伴。但你們在體驗進入幸福圈這一端的狂喜時，有些人的理性思維會是：「另一端呢？我應該如此愉快嗎？」
這就是人們說「他們正在等待另一隻鞋落地」的意思。他們認為當感覺如此美好時，一定有什麼潛伏著。
👩🏻🦰提問人：對。
👥亞伯拉罕：但我們現在討論的核心的是，妳並沒有像靈魂愛妳那樣愛自己！我們要妳能夠容易期待很棒的事情發生在自己身上。
我們要妳與靈魂一致，祂們明確地愛著妳，沒任何附加條件，只是愛妳，因為妳在那裡被愛。
妳是可愛的，妳是被生命源頭能量愛著的獨立發展存在的部分。妳被愛著、妳被愛著、妳被愛著、妳被愛著！
當妳練習這種感覺時，妳會放鬆到一種幸福美好的感覺，這種感覺無法來自妳所能描述的任何其他人。這種愛超越任何人專注著妳，將他們的愛照耀在妳身上。
換句話說，某人可能非常專注，準備好全心全意地給妳他的關愛。但當他的愛傾注於妳，妳必須知道這種情況不可能一直持續。
因為沒有人能夠持續以這種方式關注別人，沒有任何有形存在體能做到這一點。
這就是我們說的找愛找錯地方，因為妳不會想要依賴那種愛。
當它來時固然很好，但那不是妳獲取所有資源的地方，那也不是妳真正追求的。
妳真正追求的是與靈魂對齊一致成為完整的自己！
靈魂永遠不會讓妳失望，永遠不會不可預測，永遠不會分心，永遠不會忘記妳，永遠不會沒意識到妳，永遠在那裡閃耀著光芒，提供一個信號，永遠在那裡等待妳的對齊一致，感覺就是指標。
在妳世界中的每個人，無論他們多麼棒，多麼愛妳，也確實他們大多數人都很棒、都很愛妳，但他們不可能永遠陪伴妳。
因為那不是他們來人世的使命，他們是來體驗生活的，他們也有自己的靈魂，永遠、隨時引導他們。明白嗎！
當人們說他們「談戀愛了」，妳知道那是發生什麼事嗎？那是他們允許自己成為彼此關注的標的，然後建立彼此聯繫，促使他們與各自靈魂對齊一致。
換句話說，正確的說法是：「我愛你，因為你讓我很容易與自己的整體保持一致。」
👩🏻🦰提問人：對。
👥亞伯拉罕：那才是「談戀愛了」的正確說法。然而我們想對你們所有人說的是：不要讓他們因為你們使他們容易與靈魂對齊一致，你們會寵壞他們！因為你們讓他們在錯誤的地方找愛！
如果你們非常可愛，他們會忘記他們可以轉向自己靈魂，他們會要你們對他們的感覺負責，然後一切都從那裡開始走下坡。
真的很好的一段對話。（現場掌聲響起）
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💖溫故知新：
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406、寵物不危害自己的「好感覺」振動頻率
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376、吸引力法則實例 — 他實現所有他想要的
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458、做讓自己愉快、興奮、有樂趣的事情，即使它很平凡或微不足道
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The Chinese version of the materials presented here has been translated and copyrighted by Alessia Yang from Taiwan. For additional Chinese translations, please visit Facebook Page 'Abraham-Hicks in Chinese'. All Abraham-Hicks audio and photo materials are copyrighted by Abraham-Hicks, © by Jerry & Esther Hicks. Wish to hear more, please contact the website AbrahamHicks.com and phone number (830) 755-2299. Special thanks to the YouTuber who uploaded this clip, and heartfelt appreciation to ChatGPT for the 24/7 assistance and support.
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17-490. How To Stop Pushing Him Away
YouTube: https://youtu.be/37GWsVxAS_A?si=sn3ndyE6JUkHbwoG 從7:22開始
👥Abraham: It’s really lovely when someone loves you and holds you as their object of attention and just showers their love. It feels really really good. But now, you are immediately dependent upon them and their focus, over which you have no control. And before you know it, you and they are in bondage.
👩🦰Questioner: This wasn’t with another person. This occurred as a function of my actually forgiving several people who had hurt me early in my experience...
👥Abraham: You know what forgiveness is? Forgiveness is withdrawing attention from the thing that’s keeping you out of Vortex. That’s all forgiveness is. It’s turning your attention to something that puts you in the Vortex instead of toward something that keeps you out of the Vortex.
So forgiveness is just returning to your Vortex, that’s all it is. It’s being who you really are.
👩🦰Questioner: Right.
👥Abraham: So, really, the key is to think in terms of what you are presenting, not what is being presented to you.
You want someone to love you? You are looking for love in all the wrong places.
If you want to find objects of attention to love, now you are really on to something, because there are so many.
One night, in an effort to just get into the Vortex in the midst of some troubling things that were active in Esther’s experience.
She just focused upon her new pillow, and just appreciated the pillow. It sounds ridiculous that the pillow was her easiest object of attention. It wasn’t snoring, it wasn’t asking anything of her.
In other words, it was just something to softly appreciate. And that’s really all that getting into the Vortex requires --- is just finding something that you can focus upon that is absence of resistance.
And holding your attention upon this thing that is absent of resistance for as little as 17 seconds at which point it will join something equal in it vibrational equilibrium, then if you are able to maintain it for another 17 and another 17 until you past the 68th second mark, now you are effectively in the Vortex. Now, it doesn’t mean you will stay, but it means you’re effectively in the Vortex.
As you accomplish that again and again and again and again, before you know it, you feel like this loving being that you are.
Something that we’ve been dancing around in this conversation, and the one before, and even the one before, is that every subject is really two subjects. It’s like picking up the stick, and on one end of it is really what you’ve become, all that you’ve become on the active subject. And on the other end of it, is exact opposite of that. Because every way is that which is wanted and absence of it.
So when you really want something, the other end of it is really unwanted. When you sort of want something, the other end of it is sort of unwanted. They are equal in their power.
And so, when you’ve experienced something that you’ve wanted, something that you knew from the day you were born, and something you’ve seeking every day since, because innately you know you’re supposed to feel like that and have been reaching for that.
Once you sort of blundered into it, because you didn’t know what combinations of thoughts or events or situations caused you to be that cooperative component to all of that alignment. It’s logical that in the experiencing of the ecstasy on that end of the stick of alignment that your rational mind would say, “But what about the other end?”
It’s what people mean when they say they are waiting for the other shoe to drop. When something feels so good, then there must be something lurking.
👩🦰Questioner: Right.
👥Abraham: And what’s the heat of that is an inability to love yourself in the way that the Source within you loves you! We want it to be easy for you to expect wonderful things to happen to you.
We want you to be so in tune with the Source within you who adores you unequivocally and without any strings attached just love you, because you are there to be loved.
And you are lovable and you are a viable part of the Source energy itself that is loved. You are loved, you are loved! You are loved, you are loved!
As you practice the feeling of that, you’ll relax into a feeling well-being that cannot come from any other places that thing you were describing. And it’s a love beyond someone who is physically focused shining their love on you.
In other words, someone could be physically focused and get themselves all geared up to give you their undivided attention of their love. And as it’s being showered around you, there has to be a conscious recognition that this can’t continue.
Because I cannot continue to be your only object of attention, so just your rational mind in another self says, “This feels so good and I don’t ever want it to stop but I know it will.” (這段沒翻譯）
Because no one can hold you as their object of attention in that way, no other physical being can do that.
And that’s why we say, looking for love in all the wrong places. You don’t want to count on that kind of love.
It’s nice when it comes, but it’s not where you’re reaching for your resources, it’s not what you’re reaching for.
You’re reaching for alignment with the fullness of all that you are.
That will never let you down, never get squirrely, never gets distracted, never forgets about you, never is unaware of you, always is there shining bright, offering a signal, always available for your alignment. There it is, always available for your alignment which is the feeling that you are describing to us.
And everybody else in your world no matter how wonderful they are, and how much they love you, and many of them do, they are never going to be always available to you.
Because that’s not their mission for you. They came for their exposure to life. And they have an Inner Being always available them, you see!
When people say they’re in love, you know what’s happened? They have allowed themselves to be each other’s object of attention, and have connected each other to their own respective Inner Being.
In other words, the accurate thing to say is, “I love you, because you make it easy for me to align with the whole of who I am.”
👩🦰Questioner: Right.
👥Abraham: That’s the accurate statement of what being in love is. And what we would like to say to all of you is, don’t make it so easy for people to find their alignment, because you spoil them! You make them look for love in all the wrong places.
If you be very lovable, they’ll forget they’ve got an Inner Being to tune to, and they’ll hold you responsible for the way they feel, and then it all goes south from there.
Really good. (The audience applauds)
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