489、他後悔對他老婆說那些話
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👨🦰提問人：哈囉，謝謝祢們做祢們自己，祢們令人驚嘆！我有……（被亞伯拉罕打斷）
👥亞伯拉罕：這是不是一個很好的陳述？我們只做自己，只要你們願意和我們一起玩，你們就會成為自己，這就是「提升」。
👨🦰提問人：謝謝。
👥亞伯拉罕：所以你無法給予更高的讚美，是嗎？
👨🦰提問人：是的。我與伴侶的關係之中有很多事情。我有一個很棒的伴侶關係，但我… 就像每個關係都會發生的，我傷害了我妻子，我說過一些話和做過一些我後悔並希望自己從未做過的事。
👥亞伯拉罕：你正在對我們說「你剝奪你自己和她現在在幸福圈中的所有東西嗎？」因為你後悔了，你真的想要收回一切，同時歸還因此而產生的所有擴展嗎？
👨🦰提問人：不，絕對不要。
👥亞伯拉罕：當然不要！不要後悔並收回它！你可以完全專注於你放入幸福圈的東西，然後從差異對比的經驗中獲得充分的禆益。你們當初來人世就是這麼計劃的！
你們說：「我不要進入安樂窩，我將以一個永遠不會完美的『不完美的人』在人世前進。因為完美意味著完成、結束，我要繼續前進，我願意參與各種經驗，我要瘋狂地擴展，我要陶醉在我的擴展之中。」
你們從未說：「我要前進，我要第一次嘗試就正確。」
你們從未說：「我來自生命源頭，我無所不知，我要前進，我完美，不再擴展。」 （現場有些笑聲）
你們是來擴展的，你們是為了「更多」而來，知道嗎！
👨🦰提問人：所以我是為了差異對比而來到人世，我應該擁抱差異對比，並且只要永遠專注於…（被亞伯拉罕打斷）
👥亞伯拉罕：好吧，讓我們用簡單的方式告訴你。你喜歡解決方法嗎？
👨🦰提問人：喜歡。
👥亞伯拉罕：你是否足夠喜歡它到願意先經歷一個問題？
👨🦰提問人：願意。
👥亞伯拉罕：那麼，你這樣就可以了。（提問者和現場大笑）
因為當你們真的「對齊」解決方法時，你們永遠不會後悔發生這問題。但當你們「沒對齊」解決方法時，你們總是會後悔發生這問題。
👨🦰提問人：是的，我需要對齊解決方法。
👥亞伯拉罕：你必須如此！懂嗎？ 這是一次很好的對談。你要聊一些具體細節嗎？
你們認為成為完美的人是你們的功課嗎？我們這問題是問現場大部分的人。
你們是否認為自己應該非常完美，使你們能以一己之力提升地球上每個人？
👨🦰提問人：不。
👥亞伯拉罕：提升他們是你的責任嗎？
👨🦰提問人：不是。
👥亞伯拉罕：你喜歡提升他們嗎？
👨🦰提問人：喜歡。
👥亞伯拉罕：提升他們是否比不提升他們感覺更好？
👨🦰提問人：對。
👥亞伯拉罕：你是否知道 - - - 當你對齊靈魂，緊跟在後的「實現」就是提升他們；但當你沒對齊靈魂，緊跟在後的「實現」就是提升不了他們？
那麼，他們是問題？還是你是否對齊靈魂是問題？
👨🦰提問人：我是否對齊靈魂才是問題。
👥亞伯拉罕：總是如此！總是如此！總是如此！你必須把每個人置之度外。
你說：「我想談關係。」 我們說：「我們也想。」
但我們真的、真的、真的想談的關係就是「你和你的幸福圈」的關係，也就是「你和真正的你」的關係。
因為當你把它放在首位時，其它所有關係都會水到渠成。
因為當你與「真正的自己」一致，除了提升另一個人，你不可能做出任何其它事情。
但這不是你的工作，我們也不希望你覺得自己有責任提升他們。
你的責任是保持好感覺、好情緒，與真實的自己一致，然後其它一切都會隨之而來。
然而，這與大多數人的想法相反，因為大多數在伴侶關係中的人會說：「嘿，你傷了我的心，你必須做些不同的事情。你需要以一種當我看到你時，我就會有好感覺的方式行事。」
這就是「刻意創造」這個主題長期以來一直在努力解決的問題。
人們認為他們需要以某種方式控制情況，這樣他們才能有比較好的感覺。
所以你們去找婚姻顧問，他列出你們應該做的事情，還有你們哪些行為有害、哪些行為有幫助。
你們試著記住這清單，你們試著確實做到，你們試著成為完美的人。
卻仍然發現自己不夠完美，因為你們用一種方式取悅一個人，但在你們意識到之前，他們需要你們用另一種方式取悅他們。
現在他們變得依賴你們的行為才能有好感覺，你們創造了一個怪物！更重要的是，你們創造了一個永遠無法自己快樂的人！
因為你們不可能做足所有事情來讓他們保持快樂，因為這不是你的工作，那是他們自己的功課。
所以，你們要做的就是對自己的感覺負責，進入自己的幸福圈。
常常有好、好、好、好、好感覺，因為你們想要好感覺，因為有好感覺對你們來說感覺很好。
然後你們就會開始看到隨之而來「實現的證據」。
因此，你們透過自己鮮明的例子教會別人- - - 與靈魂對齊一致。了解嗎？
👨🦰提問人：所以，如果我處於負向的情況，我要知道那與他們無關，都是我自己的關係。我要像一面鏡子一樣看待它，然後說：「好吧，我在一個糟糕的位置，這就是為什麼我現在情緒不好。」
👥亞伯拉罕：我們會說：「這是我現在感覺的反照，而不是我是一個壞人的反照，也不是我永遠都無法弄清楚這一點的反照。」
👀注意每一個細節：
⭐️注意電梯的來到是回應你們的感覺，
⭐️餐廳服務人員選擇為你們帶位的區域或你們被啟發去會聚的區域都是依照你們的感覺，
⭐️廚師在你們點的炒菠菜上放多少鹽巴的靈感來自於你們的感覺 。
如果你們能掌控自己與幸福圈的關係，你們就可以完全掌控自己經驗中實現的每一件事！
✅因為你們已經吃過夠多的菠菜，知道自己喜歡吃怎樣的菠菜；
✅你們已經搭過足夠多的電梯，知道自己喜歡搭怎樣的電梯；
✅你們已經駕駛過足夠多的道路，知道自己喜歡怎樣的交通狀況；
✅你們已經有過足夠多的聊天；
✅你們已經有過足夠多的性行為；
✅你們已經吃過夠多的食物；
✅你們已經有過足夠多的事情，知道自己目前為止的喜好。
知道那是自己喜歡的樣子、那是自己喜歡的樣子、那是自己喜歡的樣子！
宇宙具備本事、能力、條件，你們放進幸福圈的每個經驗，都會送來與之振動相符的，宇宙渴望取悅你們、取悅你們、取悅你們！
但那完全取決於你們與幸福圈的關係，與其他無關。
也就是，你們與「放在幸福圈裡每件東西/事情」的振動關係，「感覺」是這關係的指標。
那麼，讓我們以實際的方式來說明一下。
如果你願意，舉一個你與伴侶關係中出現問題的例子，我們會告訴你，如果我們是你，我們會怎麼做。
👨🦰提問人：我和老婆吵架時，我說了傷了她的話。
👥亞伯拉罕：你的意思是：「具體細節是，我說了傷我老婆的話，我其實不想這麼做。但她一直無法釋懷。她不斷告訴我：『你說的那些話傷了我。』直到我終於相信，當我那麼說時，我傷害了她。這件事使我的感覺不好已經持續了很久時間，我一直很後悔。」現在，看淡些。
👨🦰提問人：我想很快地說一下這個，當她提醒我：「你記得你說過這些話？你知道的！」這也是我振動的反照嗎？
👥亞伯拉罕：對，因為「她仍然提醒你」的這事實，意味著你仍然處於那個振動位置。這很明顯，因為你坐在這裡告訴我們你後悔說那些話，表示它仍然在你的振動中活躍。
👨🦰提問人：OK。
👥亞伯拉罕：如果你們做了自己後悔的事情，如果「後悔」仍然活躍，它就會不斷發生。這意味著她會不斷提醒你，當她不再提醒你時，你就會知道你的振動已經提升了。
👨🦰提問人：OK。 （現場有些笑聲和驚呼聲）
👥亞伯拉罕：當「實現」轉變時，你們就會知道自己的振動已經轉變。
那麼讓我們開始練習這過程。
現在你看淡些，「看淡」只是為了使自己感覺比較好，「看淡」會讓你感覺好一些。
你可能會說：「我們都說了一些我們本來可以換一種方式說或者不用說出來的話。」但這仍然是負向的話。
你可以說：
「我說了一些不該說的話，但每個人都曾經這樣，那不是世界末日。
而且我不認為我應該成為一位完美的人、說完美的話、維持別人在任何時候都處於完美的位置。
當然，我不想傷任何人的心，但當我感覺不好時，我無法說出讓別人感覺好的話。
那麼，這痛苦之鏈是從哪裡開始？我繼續這痛苦之鏈，但它是從哪裡開始的？
🤔 也許有人在我傷她的心之前傷了我的心。
🤔 也許我傷她的心之前，我被乙傷了心，在更之前，乙被甲傷了心。
🤔 也許我傷她的心之前，我被D傷了心，在更之前，D被C傷了心，在更更之前，C被B傷了心，在更更更之前，B被A傷了心，
換句話說，在這個該死的世界，每個人都參與其中，對發生的事情負有責任。
我決定要停止這痛苦之鏈，我現在就要停止它，我要從不後悔那些我無法收回的事情開始。
我無法重回那當時，我無法把它從她腦袋吸出來，從她記憶中抹去，而且我不認為採取腦部前額葉腦白質切除術對她來說是公平的。（提問人和現場的人大笑）
所以，我不能收回它，我也無法改變它，但我可以透過知道我不是一個壞人來將自己轉移到一個比較看淡的位置。
我只是在人生前進的過程中盡力而為，也許沒做到盡善盡美，但也不是一無可取。
我正在盡己所能，我真的很關心她，我要她有好感覺。
我要有好感覺，這樣我就能從她身上喚起好感覺的事情。
但我真的不想為別人的感覺負責，我想為自己的感覺負責。
所以，我傷了別人的心這事情，對我來說就是我當時心情不好的表徵。
因為如果我處於一個好感覺位置，我『實現』的言行就會讓她感到歡喜和鼓舞人心，而不是『實現』令她洩氣和不愉快的言行。
所以，她要當時的對話是關於她，但我知道真正是關於我，那是真正關於我如何管理自己的振動與幸福圈是否對齊一致。
有了那次經驗，還有我們後來談它的所有那些時間，我可以感覺到我真的放了很多在我的幸福圈中。
我想成為一位鼓舞人心的人，我生來就是一位鼓舞人心的人。
在這個星球上，沒有任何人能比我深愛的這位親愛的人更讓我想鼓舞。
沒有我更想鼓舞的人，但通常也沒有我不想鼓舞的人，這是因為我們常深入彼此生活經驗細節。
我要少看具體細節，更多看淡一些，我要多想想人際關係對我的意義是什麼。
人際關係是一個讓我真正發現自己是誰的機會，人際關係持續給我『關於我是誰』的回饋，這是人際關係中最好的事。
每個與我有關係的人都是對我最有意義的人：我喜歡的人，愛的人，有性關係的人，住在一起的人，結婚的人…..。
這些與我有關係的人，他們最能反照我當下的感覺。
因此，對我來說他們最重要的角色就是 - - - 他們反照我的感覺。
我沒用他們做我的共鳴板，但我察覺到他們反照我的感覺、我的感覺、我的感覺。
因此，我將停止這痛苦之鏈，不再考慮他們『對我的感覺』有什麼感覺，和我讓他們感覺到什麼。我將開始只考慮我與幸福圈關係的感覺。
我將多注意實際情況，看看我從他們那裡引發的『實現』是否反照『我理解我真正是誰』振動的提升。
現在我已經感覺好多了，現在我可以去一個比較看淡的位置。
我知道我是非常好的人，我知道我是一位鼓舞者，我經常處於一個鼓舞人心的位置。
沒有什麼能比反照『我真正是誰的真實本質』的『實現』更讓我喜歡的了。
我相信我存在的原因，你們同樣也如此，我生下來就是為了給別人帶來價值，我生下來就是為了使別人的生活有點不同，我生下來就是為了看到他們最好的那一面，並『實現』他們最好的那一面。」
「實現」是不是一個好詞？ 這是不是一個使用「實現」這個詞的好方式？
再繼續說：
「我透過發現自己最好的一面來『實現』妳最好的一面。我不會仔細檢查妳情緒位置在哪裡，因為那無關緊要。
現在我只注意自己情緒的位置和感覺，我不想傷妳的心，我非常喜歡鼓舞妳。
坦白說，我不再願意容忍因為自己不和諧，而傷了別人的心。
但並不是因為我不想傷妳的心，而是因為我 - 不 - 想 - 傷 - 害 - 自 - 己 - 的 - 感 - 覺！」
這是很 - 大 - 的 - 重 - 點！朋友們！
再繼續說：
「我不想傷害自己的感覺。當我與靈魂對齊、和諧、一致時，我可以感覺到；但當我與靈魂不對齊、不和諧、不一致時，我也可以感覺到。
因為當我傷心時，我會想要喚起妳的痛苦；當我愛的時候，我會想要喚起妳的愛。」
那麼，我們是否教導自私呢？ 是的，確實如此！
因為如果你們不自私地要求自己與幸福圈、靈魂對齊一致，那麼當你們發現一種無法用任何其他方式解決的情況時，那就太棒了，因為你們唯一獲得解脫、解決的方法就是進入自己幸福圈，因為靈魂知道你們想要的解決的方法。懂嗎！
也許這對你來說是一次足夠後悔的經驗，使你願意開始進入自己幸福圈。
也或許未來有更多令你後悔的經驗，但我們認為這已經足夠了，我們可以感覺到這痛苦的經驗足夠大，使你願意去做這功課。懂了嗎？
（本篇結束）
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16-489. This’ll Touch Your Soul And You’ll Say “I Finally Get It!”
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👨Questioner: Hello, thank you for just being you, you’re awesome. I have…(Interrupted by Abraham)
👥Abraham: Isn’t that a good statement, because in us just being who we are, and your willingness to just play with us, then you become who you are, and that’s what upliftment is.
👨Questioner: Thanks.
👥Abraham: So you could not pay a higher compliment, could you?
👨Questioner: I don’t think so. There are a lot of things in my relationship. I have an amazing relationship, but I..., as happens in every relationship, I’ve hurt my wife, I’ve said things and done things that I regret and wish I’d never done.
👥Abraham: Are you really saying to us that you would deprive yourself and her of all the stuff that’s now in the Vortex. Would you really want to take all of that back cuz you regret it? Take it all back and at the same time give back all of the expansion that came from it?
👨Questioner: Mmm, no, definitely not.
👥Abraham: Of course not! You don’t want to regret it and take it back but you could focus fully upon what you put in the Vortex and then receive the full benefit of the contrasting experience. That’s what your plan was when you came.
You said, “I’m not going into a feathered nest. I’m going as an imperfect person who will never be perfect. Because perfect implies finished, I’m going to go forth, and I’m going to mix it up, and I’m going to expand like crazy, and I’m going to revel in my expansion.”
You never said, “I’m going to go forth and get it right first crack out of the box.”
You never said, “I come from Source, and I am all knowing, so I will go forth and be just like I am.” (Some laughters from the audience)
You came for expansion. You came for more, you see!
👨Questioner: So the reason I’m here is because of the contrast, and I should embrace the contrast and just always focus on... (Interrupted by Abraham)
👥Abraham: Well, let’s just put it to you in simple terms. Do you like solutions?
👨Questioner: Yes.
👥Abraham: Do you like it enough to be willing to experience a problem?
👨Questioner: Yes.
👥Abraham: Then you are done. (Laughter erupts from the questioner and the audience.) And when you are really in alignment with the solution, you never regret the problem. But when you are not in alignment with solution, you always regret the problem.
👨Questioner: Yes, I need to get in alignment with the solution.
👥Abraham: You want to, you see. So, want to take about something specific? This is a good conversation.
Do you think it is your job to be so perfect? And we’re asking this of a lot of you, because it’s been the theme of the conversations today.
Do you think you should be so perfect that you should single handedly uplift every person on the planet?
👨Questioner: No.
👥Abraham: Is it your responsibility to uplift them?
👨Questioner: No.
👥Abraham: Do you like to uplift them?
👨Questioner: Yes.
👥Abraham: Does it feel better to uplift them than not to?
👨Questioner: Yes.
👥Abraham: Do you understand that when you uplift them, that’s the manifestation that comes on the heels of your alignment? And when you don’t uplift them, that’s the manifestation that comes on the heels of your misalignment? So are they the issue or is your alignment the issue?
👨Questioner: My alignment is the issue.
👥Abraham: Always. Always. Always. So you have to take everybody else out of the equation.
You said, “I want to talk about relationship.” And we say, “We do too.”
But there’s only one relationship that we really, really, really, really, really want to talk about, and that’s the relationship between you and your Vortex, you and who you really are.
And when you put that in the top position, every other relationship falls into place.
Because you cannot possibly do anything other than uplift another person, if you are in alignment with who you really are.
But it’s not your job, we don’t want you to feel responsibility to uplift them.
We want you to feel responsibility to feeling good, to aligning with who you really are, then everything else follows.
It’s backwards from what most people think, because most people in a relationship would say, “Hey, you hurt my feelings and you need to do something different, you need to perform in a way that when I observe you I feel good.”
This is what the subject of Deliberate Creation has been grappling with for a very long time.
People think that they need to manipulate in some way, somehow a situation, so that then they can have a better feeling response.
So you go to a marriage counselor, and he gives you a list of things that you should do, and he tells you which of your behaviors are hurtful, or which of your behaviors are helpful.
And you try to memorize the list, and you try to bang it into place, you try to be the perfect person.
Only to discover you can’t get perfect enough, because you stand on your head enough to please a person in one way, and before you know it, they need you to stand on your head to please them in another way and another way.
Because now they become dependent on your behavior to feel good, you’ve created a monster! And more than that, you’ve created someone who cannot ever be happy!
Because you can’t possibly do enough work to keep them happy, because it’s not your work to do, it’s their work to do.
So, what you do is take responsibility for the way you feel, and you get into your Vortex.
And feel good, good, good, good, good, because you want to, because it feels good to you to feel good.
And then you just begin watching the manifestation evidence of it.
And you teach through the clarity of your example --- Alignment, you see!
👨Questioner: So, if I’m in a negative situation, I need to realize it’s not them, that’s me, and I need to treat it like a mirror. And say, “Okay, I’m in a bad place, that’s why emotionally not good right now.”
👥Abraham: Well, what we would say is, “This is a reflection of how I’m feeling. Not a reflection that I’m a bad person, and not a reflection that I’m not ever going to figure this out, but it’s a reflection of how I feel right now.”
👀Notice it right down to the last detail,
⭐️Notice it the elevator comes to you in response to how you feel.
⭐️The waiter in the restaurant that is chosen for your section or the section that you are inspired to rendezvous with is chosen by the way you feel.
⭐️The chef that puts the salt on your sauteed spinach is inspired by the way you feel.
You have complete control of everything that manifests in your experience, if you have control of your relationship with your Vortex.
✅Because you’ve eaten enough spinach to know just how you like it;
✅and you’ve ridden on enough elevators to know just how you like it;
✅you’ve driven in enough traffic to know just how you like it;
✅you’ve had enough conversations,
✅you’ve had enough sex,
✅you’ve eaten enough food,
✅you’ve had enough everything to know just how you like it so far.
Just how you like it, just how you like it, just how you like it.
And the Universe is out there with the ability, with the capacity, with the wherewithal, and with the desire to please you, please you, please you, please you on every single experience that you’ve put into your Vortex provided you are a vibrational match to your Vortex.
It’s all about your relationship with your Vortex. It’s not about anything else.
it’s about your vibrational relationship with everything that you’ve put there which is indicated by the way you feel.
So, let’s walk through this in a practical way.
So, give us a ..., if you want to, an example of something that’s gone wrong in a relationship. And we’ll just show you what we would do, if we were standing in your physical shoes.
👨Questioner: From a place of when my wife and I were in a fight. I said something very hurtful.
👥Abraham: So specifically, I said things that were very hurtful. I hurt my wife, I didn’t want to. I said specific things that she never got over, she held the grudge, she keeps reflecting it back to me. “You hurt me when you said this.” “You hurt me when you said this.” “You hurt me when you said this.” “You hurt me when you said this.” “Till I finally believe that I hurt her when I said that.” So specific, specific, specific, specific, feels bad, feels bad, feels bad, feels bad been going on a long time, “I’ve been regretting this a long time.” So now, go general.
👨Questioner: And I mean ..., quickly on that, she also reminds me of that, “You remember when you told me this and you know so.” And that’s also a reflection of me?
👥Abraham: Yes, because the fact that she still reminds you means that you’re still in that vibrational place. In other words, and it’s obvious, because you’re just sitting here telling us that you regret having done that. It’s still active in your vibration!
👨Questioner: Okay.
👥Abraham: If you do something that you regret, and the regret is what’s active, it’s going to keep happening, which means she’s going to keep reminding you. When she stops reminding you, you’ll know you’ve shifted.
👨Questioner: Okay. (Some laughs and shocking-oh sound from the audience)
👥Abraham: When the manifestation shifts to something else, you’ll know you’ve shifted to something else.
So, let’s start that process.
So, now you get more general, and to get more general just trying to make yourself feel better and feeling general will make you feel better.
So, you might say something like, “We all say things that we could have said differently or not said.” That’s still negative.
“I said something that I shouldn’t have said. But everybody sort of does it, and it’s not the end of the world.
And I don’t think it’s my job anyway to be the perfect person that says the perfect things that hold somebody else in the perfect place at all times.
And sure, I don’t want to hurt somebody’s feelings, but when I don’t feel good, I don’t have access to things that make other people feel good.
So, where did this chain of pain start? I continued the chain of pain, but where did it start?
🤔 In other words, maybe somebody hurt my feelings before I hurt her feelings,
🤔 And maybe somebody else hurt their feelings before they hurt my feelings before I hurt her feelings.
🤔 Maybe somebody else hurt their feelings before they hurt their feelings before they hurt their feelings before they hurt my feelings before I hurt her feelings.”
In other words, there’s… everybody sort of involved in this in the whole damn world of responsible for what just took place here.
But I’ve decided that I’m going to stop this chain of pain. And I’m gonna stop it right now, and I’m gonna to start by not regretting something that I can’t take back.
I can’t move back into that time and suck that back and zap it from her memory, I don’t think a lobotomy is a fair thing for her. (The questioner and the audience laughs.)
And so, I can’t take it back, I can’t change that, but I can move myself into a more general place by acknowledging that I’m not a bad person.
I was just doing the best I could do as I was moving along, and maybe it wasn’t that good, but it wasn’t that bad either.
And I’m doing my best, I really care about her, I want her to feel good.
And I want to feel good so that I can evoke from her things that feel good.
But I really don’t want to take responsibility for how someone else feels, I want to take responsibility for how I feel.
So, the fact that I hurt somebody’s feelings is to me information that I was not in a good place.
Because if I had been in a good place my manifestation would have been something that was pleasing and uplifting to her rather than manifestation that was deflating and not pleasing.
So, this whole conversation that she wants to make about her, I know is really about me, it’s really about how I am managing my vibrational alignment with my Vortex.
And now having had that experience and having talked about it in all the times we have, I can feel that I’ve put really a lot in my Vortex.
I want to be an uplifter, I was born to be an uplifter.
There’s no one on the planet that I want to uplift more than this dear person who I love so much.
There’s nobody that I want to uplift more and yet there’s usually nobody that I uplift less, and it’s because we’re caught in the details and the nitty-gritty of one another’s life experience.
And I’m going to get less specific about that and more general. And I’m going to think more about what relationships mean to me.
Relationship is an opportunity for me to really find out who I am. That’s the best thing about relationship. It’s my opportunity for the relationship to give me constant feedback about who I am.
So, everyone with whom I have a relationship and the people that mean the most to me, those people that I’m adoring, and loving, and having sex with, and living with, and married to.
These people that I’m having these relationships with, they are the people that are most reflective of how I feel.
That’s their most important role to me. They are reflective of how I feel.
So, I’m not using them as a sounding board so much, but I am cognizant of the fact that they are reflecting back to me how I feel, how I feel, how I feel.
So, I’m going to stop the chain of pain by no longer considering how they feel about how I feel, how I’m making them feel. And I’m going to start considering only how I feel in relationship to my Vortex.
And I’m going to keep a keen ear to the ground to see how the manifestations that I’m evoking from them are reflective of my shift in vibration of my shift in my understanding of who I am.
So, I’m feeling better already and now I can go to a more general place.
I know that I’m a really good person and I know that I am an uplifter and I often am in a place of uplifting.
And there isn’t anything that I like more than to a manifestation that reflects the true essence of who I am.
I believe with everything that I am, you do, that I was born to be a value to others, that I was born to make a difference in people’s lives, that I was born to see the best in them, and to manifest the best in them.”
Isn’t that a good word? A good way to use the word “manifest”?
“I’m manifesting the best in you by discovering the best in me. I’m not scrutinizing where you are, because that’s irrelevant.
I’m just paying attention to where I am to how I feel and I so abhor the feeling of hurting your feelings and I so adore the feeling of uplifting you.
that frankly I just am no longer ever willing to tolerate my personal discord in hurting somebody else’s feelings.
But it’s not because I don’t want to hurt your feelings, it’s because I don’t want to hurt my feelings.” This is big, friends!
“I don’t want to hurt my feelings. My feelings when I align with Source, I feel it; when I’m not aligned with Source, I feel it.
When I’m hurting, I’m going to evoke pain from you; when I’m loving, I’m gonna evoke love from you.”
So, do we teach selfishness? Yes, indeed, we do.
If you are not selfish enough demand from yourself, alignment. It’s so wonderful when you discover a situation that you can’t bang into place in any other way, and the only way you can get relief is by going to your Vortex and knowing what the Source within you knows, you see!
So maybe this was a poignant enough experience for you that you’re gonna do that.
And maybe you will have more poignant experiences, but we think this is poignant enough, we can feel the pain of that experience was great enough that you’re willing to do the work, you see.
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