486、以亞伯拉罕風格約會 — 享受其中樂趣
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👱♀️發問者：我大約單身12年，我現在試著要與新朋友約會，我想知道亞伯拉罕對約會的看法。如何以亞伯拉罕的風格約會？ （現場大笑）
👥亞伯拉罕：嗯……大量地、熱情地、坦誠地、無需承諾。 （全場安靜了幾秒）
👱♀️提問者：聽起來很不錯，呃……祢們能否再詳細多說明一些，那是怎樣的約會？
👥亞伯拉罕：從妳當下的位置來看，它看起來是妳所能找到的最有趣互動。
此外，問自己：「在我所處的位置，我要如何最佳利用我與別人的互動時間？」
我們之所以這樣告訴妳，是因為通常在一段關係過去之後，你們會有一長串不想再重複發生的事情，因此你們的幸福圈已經充滿自己想要的。
換句話說，所有你們不要再重蹈覆轍的，都已經在你們自己的幸福圈中有了更好的版本，它們已經在那裡了！你們不必釐清、防範或擔心，只要別回想、別提、別跟別人聊那些不要的事，別活躍那些不要的振動。
甚至在這種關係停止之前，吸引過程就已經開始，因為你們「想要的」的吸引已經強大地存在。
但有一種傾向，尤其在被社會期望、文化影響的社交環境下….. 這就是為什麼我們說「大量地」。我們希望你們有一種在其中自由流動的感覺，而不是「我這次要選擇正確的人」的態度。
因為「我這次要選擇正確的人」的態度，會使你們回想什麼是不正確的，那些振動被激活，然後無法避免地又再次做出那些自己不想要做的事情。
因此用輕鬆愉快的態度，告訴自己：「宇宙都安排好一切了，都已經在幸福圈了，我的功課就是享受約會的樂趣、享受做愛的樂趣、享受聊天的樂趣、享受互動的樂趣。
盡情開心、盡情快樂、盡情高興、盡情愉快，感覺對生命有熱情、感覺自己有活力，精力充沛、感覺活著。我不是在尋找一段關係，我在尋找一個有意義的時刻、另一個有意義的時刻、再另一個有意義的時刻。我只要此刻當下感覺好，當下！當下！當下！當下！當下！當下！當下！」
一旦你們找到約會的樂趣，並且享受那些事情，自己會感覺到、會憑直覺知道。
有些人本能地知道這一點，所以你們會聽到這些人說：「我不要認真的關係。」但大部分人，尤其女性，真的不想聽到這句話。
所以如果遇到有人對妳說：「我不要認真的關係。」我們要妳開心地回答：「那麼你正是我要找的人！我就是想要如此！」（全場大笑） 「因為嚴肅的事情會困住我們，我只是想要找到對齊真正的自己（靈魂）的方法。」
如果妳有 100、200或300個不同方法，可以用來對齊真正的自己（靈魂），妳猜會發生什麼事？只要穩定持續對齊真正的自己（靈魂），妳夢想渴望的關係必定出現！
👱♀️提問人：嗯嗯。那麼性別角色呢？我們有兩種性別，男性和女性，顯然性別有其重要性，否則我們不會有這種差異。確定關係然後在一起之後，性別扮演什麼角色？落在哪裡？
👥亞伯拉罕：性別角色在很大程度上是學來的行為。每個人都是生命源頭能量，從我們無形角度來看，我們感覺不到男性和女性振動的差異，沒有性別的振動差異。
因此，如果你們調整自己，在振動上成為真正的自己、對齊靈魂，吸引力法則會處理那些事情。
有些人總是急於把事情歸類，然後他們用歸類的部分內容，作為不對齊真正的自己（靈魂）的藉口。無論以性別、種族、宗教、經濟… 等等各種名目歸類，你們經歷過很多，你們知道自己喜歡什麼是吧？「喜歡」不是很好嗎？
👱🏻♀️提問人：那麼性呢？是否應該先等待一段時間才有性？需要很了解他們嗎？還是就熱情地直接開始，一直開心享受？（現場有笑聲）
亞伯拉罕：如果不享受性，就延後吧。
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YouTube 的4:45 ～ 8:27 時間區段，亞伯拉罕解說性方面的內容沒翻譯。請看下面「溫故知新」相關譯文比較完整。
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👱♀️提問人：我認為女性在性方面相對弱勢，這被稱為化學變化。這種化學黏合較常發生在「與男性發生性的女性」，而不是「與女性發生性的男性」。因為男人做了之後可以「耶比！下一位～」……（被亞伯拉罕打斷）
👥亞伯拉罕：妳可以說那是化學變化，但我們會稱之為「振動」。
如果一位女性感到弱勢、脆弱或依賴，並希望透過一段關係來填補這空虛，那麼她對性的反應與那些「站在一個感覺安全和自由的位置，且不尋找任何方式來填補空虛」的人不同。
我們鼓勵性就像我們鼓勵所有其它事情一樣，我們要你們：
💞 對齊真正的自己（靈魂），然後去雜貨店；
💞 對齊真正的自己（靈魂），然後開車上路；
💞 對齊真正的自己（靈魂），然後有性互動；
💞 對齊真正的自己（靈魂），然後⋯
💞 「對齊」再「行動」！
💞 「對齊」再「行動」！知道嗎！
不要以「性互動」或「吃任何東西」作為對齊真正的自己（靈魂）的方式！有很多人用大量活動來填補很多空虛，然後抱怨沒效果，這就是我們說的「找愛找錯地方」。
👱♀️提問人：祢們要我們花大量時間「對齊」真正的自己（靈魂），然後「行動」這部分會進行得很快、很順利。因此，對於浪漫的戀情，若強烈表達自己要什麼，述說自己要怎樣的男人的故事，對齊真正的自己（靈魂），自己感覺......（被亞伯拉罕打斷）
👥亞伯拉罕：妳剛的具體詢問，我們給妳的建議是：享受其中樂趣！
因為害怕出錯，所以很多人太努力，若你們越努力，你們就越排斥抗拒自己想要的。因為在負向情緒位置的努力，會增加負向的動能。
我們正在試圖擺脫妳內心的束縛，我們希望妳持有一種態度：「我不會弄錯，我只是在收集資料，我真正想要的已經累積在我的幸福圈中，所有合作組件已經被吸引到位，獨缺我還沒到位。」
「現在我該怎麼做才能進入幸福圈？」這是妳要問自己的問題！
無論你們追尋什麼，讓你們進入幸福圈的最少排斥抗拒道路是什麼？最快的路徑是什麼？你們能怎麼做？
首先，「放輕鬆」等同充滿希望，比絕望、依賴、心碎或被遺棄的感覺「更接近」幸福圈，了解嗎？
你們必須先到幸福圈的「周圍附近」，才能「試著進入」幸福圈。否則若你們振動不符合，試圖強行進入，不斷旋轉的幸福圈會把你們甩出去，使你們無法進入幸福圈。
妳有過這些經驗，是吧？因此妳不妨先溫暖自己，使自己充滿希望和快樂，接近幸福圈。
這就是為什麼我們鼓勵對任何事不要太認真，只要享受其中樂趣，並相信吸引力法則會帶給妳那些。
妳先不要認定就是A先生，也不要假定就是B先生，也不要推定就是C先生。告訴自己：「你們都不是我要的伴侶，我只是和你們一起找樂趣而已！不是A先生！不是B先生！不是C先生！我的伴侶在我的幸福圈中，我只是利用你們進入我的幸福圈而已！」（全場大笑並鼓掌）
👱♀️提問人：謝謝，哈哈哈，謝謝。
（本篇結束）
🤶溫故知新：
201、性與情感連結
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/1431128833600730/
202、性高潮的能量變化
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/1438073459572934/
203、為何色情出版品吸引人?
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/1445082245538722/
204、更年期與衰老
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/1452665851447028/
205、她問自慰和性
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/1459703917409888/
380、吸引力法則實例 13— 吉妮的孫女掉了一隻鞋子
https://www.facebook.com/1021491284564489/posts/3684234068290184/
463、安全感來自於「進入幸福圈」，而不是伴侶
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/pfbid0UMfXroDP6wcvT2qDcNoYkEtspXxNfGW4CVRKYNKDb4BAUu6tM71PthakpNqqpN53l
464、練習正向思考、正向情緒感覺、控制振動頻率，可使「安全感」和「價值感」穩固就位
https://www.facebook.com/abraham.hicks.in.chinese/posts/pfbid022zAfv4ezfHapxd8jz3LeCKfN1XEpx9oThutPiQyEpcN6ADi3A3ZmfP2rGGqntc1yl
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13-486. Dating Abraham style
YouTube: https://youtu.be/vL3lm1Inplc?si=BEccWqciw-LlMbS5
👱♀️Questioner: So I am new to the dating scene and single after about 12 years and I would like to know Abraham’s take on dating. How to date on Abraham style? (The audience laughs)
👥Abraham: Hmmm..., profusely, passionately, freely with no strings. (The entire room quiet for few seconds)
👱♀️Questioner: Sounds really good. (The audience laughs) Uh..., Could you, if you can elaborate a little bit more. Sort of what does a date look like?
👥Abraham: It looks like the most fun interchange that I can find from where I’m standing right now. We don’t want to use the word “fast”, but we want to find a word that means “from the proximity of where I stand”. What’s the best use of my interactive time from where I stand?
And the reason that we’re giving it to you in this sort of odd way, is because there’s a tendency especially after you’ve had a relationship and now that relationship is behind you, and so you’ve got a long list of things you don’t want to repeat, and your vibrational escrow (= Vortex) is full of the other side of that.
In other words, all the stuff you don’t want to repeat has already been put the better version of it in your vibration escrow (= Vortex), so you don’t have to sort that out or guard against it. You don’t have to worry about it, it’s already there.
And the attraction process has begun even before this relationship stopped, so the attraction of what you want is already powerfully there.
But there is a tendency especially in this environment where... that’s why we said “profusely”, we want you have to the feeling of sort of freely flowing in this rather than the attitude of I’m going to get it right this time.
Because the attitude I’m going to get it right this time, causes you to remember what wasn’t right, activate that within your vibration, and then make sure that you do all those things again that you don’t want to do.
Where if have this carefree, “It’s all lined up, it’s already done, and my work is to have fun and dating, to have fun and lovemaking, to have fun and conversation, to have fun and interaction, to have fun and conversation.” To have fun, to have fun, to have fun, to have fun. To feel good to be stimulated, to be invigorated, to be vital and alive.In other words, I’m not on the search for a relationship. I’m on the search for a meaningful moment, a meaningful moment, a meaningful moment, meaning one that feels good now, now, now, now, now, now, now, now!”
And once you find a little bit of that and tune into that, you’ll know right away, you’ll know intuitively.
And so, a lot of people intuitively know that and those are the ones that you hear say when they meet you, “I’m not looking for anything serious.” And most people, especially women really don’t want to hear that “I’m not looking for anything serious.”
If someone says that to you, we want you to say and mean it, “Then you are exactly what I’m looking for.” (The questioner and the audience laughs) “That’s exactly what I’m looking for! The serious stuff bogs us down what I’m looking for is an excuse to line up with who I am.”
And what if you have 100 or 200 or 300 different excuses to line up with who you are, guess what, you’ve line up with who you are and then that relationship must come.
👱♀️Questioner: Mm-hmm. What about gender roles? I mean in terms of you... we come in two different kinds... they’re two choices male and female, so obviously there’s something important to that, or we wouldn’t have that differentiation. Is this gender play something in courtship? Where does that fall in?
👥Abraham: Well, it’s for the most part learned behavior. In other words, you are all Source energy. And from our perspective, we cannot feel a vibrational difference between male and female. There is no vibrational difference.
So if you are tuning to who you really are vibrationally, Law of Attraction will sort all of that out.
People are so eager to pigeonhole everything, and then use part of what they’re pigeonholing as an excuse to not line up with who they are. In other words, whether you’re talking about gender or race or religion or economics... in other words, aren’t there a lot of things that you lived that you know that you prefer? Isn’t it alright for you get to prefer it?
👱♀️Questioner: What about sex? Should you wait a certain amount of time before you have sex with somebody? Do you need to know them well? Or do you just get on in there and woohoo happy all time? (The audience laughs)
👥Abraham: Well, if sex isn’t fun, delay it. (The questioner and the audience laughs)
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Abraham: Otherwise, it’s part of what we are talking about. In other words, it is the single most sought after component in interaction. And therefore, that may be the reason that so many people use it as weapon or a club or something to hold against another, you see.
But your broader non-physical perspective in.... In other words, let’s talk about that sexual calling, that sexual interaction, that sexual feeling, that feeling of attraction, that often is then explained through sexual terms, sexual attraction.
And many people most of them outside of this room would not feel comfortable with what we’re going to say next, but there is very little if any difference between the energy of alignment and the energy of sexuality.
And when you think about it, think about what the components of a really wonderful sexual interaction are, so two people coming together for co-creation, and by that we’re not talking about procreation, we are talking about co-creation, sharing a moment where common intentions are focused upon in an attitude of distraction so that there is a cessation of resistance.
Makes for an orgasmic explosion of alignment. And we want to say, while everything that is orgasm is not alignment. An orgasm in alignment it just does not get any better than that.
In other words, it is what that means, it’s why people talk about sexual transmutation and most people when you begin to talk about lining up energy or when you begin to talk about having the feeling for the first time in most people’s lives, the first time they are really ready to say to anyone and everyone else, “I don’t care what you say about this, I’m going the way I’m going.” Is because something sexual is calling them.
We are not saying that sexuality is the path to alignment. We’re saying that when you’re in alignment, sexuality can be a component of that alignment. So we would not leave it out of the equation, but we also wouldn’t use it in the way that so many people are using it as a mean to say, “Well, now we are participating in this way, that means that until death do us part, you must do everything that I want you to do.”
That’s the way it is being used. Religions use it, religions have used sexuality as a means to control people from the beginning of the time and they still are. (The audience applauds)
And it is an interesting thing to watch the nature of all species is that. And isn’t it interesting that the subject that is most responsible that is responsible that without it, it could not be for the continuation of the species and population is the subject that is so often criticized and used as the club to hold you outside of your alignment.
It is more of a statement of how people really feel about who they are. When you take the subject that is responsible for your very existence and you put it into little boxes of condemnation, it really speaks to how as a mass consciousness you’ve come to feel about who you really are, you see!
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👱♀️Questioner: As a woman, I think that there’s sexuality has… there’s sense… there’s more of a vulnerability that I think that it’s been described chemically. That there’s this chemical bonding that happens more with women who have sex with a man than a man who has sex with a woman. Like the guy kind of does it, and then “Woo-hoo on to the next!” And the woman can be… (interrupted by Abraham)
👥Abraham: You can call it chemical if you want to, but we would call it vibrational.
In other words, if a woman is feeling vulnerable or dependent and is looking to fill that void through a relationship, then she has a different response to the sexual activity than someone who’s standing in a place of feeling secure and free who’s not looking for any way to fill a void.
We encourage sexuality in the way we encourage all other things, and we have had a lot of discussion about this here today.
💞Line up with who you are and then go to the grocery store,
💞line up with who you are and then get out in traffic,
💞line up with who you are and then have your sexual interaction.
Don’t have your sexual interaction or eat whatever you’re eating as your method to get lined up!
💞Get lined up and then act,
💞lined up and then act,
you see!
There are a lot of people filling a lot of voids with a lot of activity and then complaining that it didn’t work. And that’s what we mean when we say looking for love in all the wrong places.
👱♀️Questioner: So you talk about spending a lot of time getting in alignment, and then the action steps sort of go quickly and take care of themselves. So for a romantic situation, you beat the drum of what you want, you tell the story of the man you want, you get in alignment, you feel it… (Interrupted by Abraham)
👥Abraham: But you see, the advice that we gave you when you asked specifically and we said just have fun with it!
Is that the harder you work on it, the more resistant you are to what you want. It’s the thing of trying too hard, that so many people do, it’s the fear of getting it wrong.
And that’s what we are just sort of trying to break loose within you. And we want you to have an attitude of “I can’t get it wrong, and meanwhile, I’m just collecting data, and what I really wants already amassed over there in my vibrational escrow, in my vibrational reality, and all of the components have been drawn to it, and the only missing part is me.”
“Now what can I do to get in that Vortex?” That’s the question that you want to ask yourself.
No matter what it is you’re looking for over there, what is the fastest path? What’s the Path of Least Resistance to get me inside that Vortex? What can I do?”
Well, first of all, being light hearted is being hopeful is a whole lot closer than being in despair or dependent or brokenhearted or left feeling abandoned, you see!
So you want to get within the range of the Vortex before you try to get in, otherwise if you try to force yourself in, it’ll just spin you right out. If you don’t match, it’ll just spin you off in the bushes.
So you’ve had those experiences, have you? So, you might as well warm yourself up to the proximity of it, get hopeful and happy.
And that’s why our encouragement was just don’t make anything serious about it. In other words, just have fun with it and trust that Law of Attraction will bring you that.
And don’t try to make this one “it”, and this one “it”, and this one “it”! Say to yourself, “None of you are ‘it’, I’m just having fun with you! None of you are ‘it’! None of you are ‘it’! None of you are ‘it’! It’s in my Vortex, I’m just using you to get into my Vortex!” (The audience laughs loud and applauds)
👱♀️Questioner: Thank you, ha, ha, ha. Thank you!
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