485、條列優點、回憶一見鍾情的感覺、「不要」的別回應，一週內關係就會轉好
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（🛑本篇是亞伯拉罕給感情顧問的建議）
👥亞伯拉罕：我們建議這麼做 - - -
我們會開始談吸引力法則以及如何駕馭自己振動，那麼他們就可以與吸引力法則合作。
很多人一開始真的很喜歡成為「刻意創造者」，當他們決定成為他們自己經驗的「刻意創造者」時，會說：「哦！我將控制我的經驗！」
但是他們誤解為：「我可以控制其他人在我經驗中的行為，因為就是他們給了我如此多的悲傷。」而這也確實是多數人的感覺。 因為多數人一直對生活做出反應，所以他們熱切渴望找到控制別人行為的方法，以便他們看到時，他們感覺會比較好。
因此，把你知道的吸引力法則告訴他們，你必須讓他們明白，在這個以吸引力法則為基礎的宇宙，不存在「不要/不好」。因為當你們看著「不要的人事物」或對它大喊「不要！」，你們的振動「已經對齊」不要的人事物。
🥳 當人類對某人事物說「好/要」時，你們會得到更多。
😱 當人類對某人事物說「不好/不要」時，你們也會得到更多。
因此：
🆗 當伴侶提議的是自己想要的事情/東西時，多說：「好/要」；
🤐 但是當伴侶提議的是自己不想要的事情/東西時，就「閉嘴」，直到自己振動中沒有那些不想要的事情/東西。
因為人們不想聽到你說：「你遇到的這種事情/東西是被你邀請而來。」 他們不認為自己邀請它，因為他們根本不要它，所以為他們怎麼可能邀請自己不要的事情/東西？
所以你必須幫助他們理解，吸引力法則對每一個人都公平，吸引力法則總是給每個人振動中活躍的東西！
即使他們坐在那裡對你搖頭、表示懷疑，你也要說：
「幫我一個忙，在我下次看到你們之前，這週先玩個遊戲。這遊戲是這樣的：
拿一本筆記本，坐下來，別坐在一起，條列出伴侶正向的地方/方面。
別揑造、別誇大，譬如：認為伴侶超重，別寫出：『他/她有完美體重。』別那麼寫！ （全場大笑）
譬如：吞不下伴侶煮的任何東西，別寫：『他/她精通廚藝。』別那麼寫！別揑造！別挑戰自己！別欺騙自己！單純寫下伴侶正向的那些事情。
『真正有效果的方法』 - - - 就是回憶與伴侶當初邂逅時的感覺，一見鐘情的感覺，寫下邂逅剛開始那幾天的感覺，並且強調你們真正欣賞伴侶的那些地方，寫那些。
不要跟伴侶交流自己寫了什麼，雙方各自私底下寫。 我們下次諮詢時再談。」
如果他們不願意寫，那麼這組客戶不應該找你諮詢。
👨💼提問人：對。
👥亞伯拉罕：因為你提出的要求非常小，所以那意味著他們不信任你、表示這他們沒有足夠強烈的渴望、他們不適合由你協助。
如果他們願意寫，我們跟你保證，當他們下次回來時，他們的關係在一週內就已經轉好！
💖 他們之間的不愉快負向互動明顯減少，愉快正向互動明顯增多。
💖 他們2人都會喚醒自己最欣賞對方的地方，這比喚起彼此更好的行為更重要，當然這也會發生。
💖 他們會善用對方成為自己進入幸福圈的方法、對齊靈魂的方法。
我們只是將這些告訴你，你可以之後在諮詢中梳理出你的處理方式。
當你們利用某人作為自己待在幸福圈的方法、對齊靈魂的方法時，你們愛他/她！你們愛他/她！！！因為當你們專注著他/她時，你們馬上進入幸福圈、馬上對齊靈魂！
因為當你們刻意用某人使自己進入幸福圈，生命源頭充滿你們，你們充滿正向情緒，這就是在愛之中！
這就是為什麼人們要把他/她帶回家，並且永遠留住他/她，因為他/她讓你們有好感覺！
換句話說，如果人們真的了解幸福圈，那麼對許多人來說，尋找伴侶說就不再是一件大事了！
而且有關如何進入幸福圈的節目會更多，有關如何尋找伴侶的節目會大幅減少。真的！因為任何人出於任何原因想要任何東西，都是因為他們相信自己擁有它之後會感覺更好。懂嗎！
因此，「條列出正向的地方/方面」有一種魔力，能使他們有機會提升自己的振動，然後改變他們的吸引力點。
是的，改變他們的感覺更重要！
所以下次你見到他們時，他們會對生活感覺更好，他們對所有事情都會感覺更好。
然後你可以對他們說：「你們這週做得非常好，因為你們做了最困難的部分。你們把彼此的爭端稍微解決了一點，因為你們運用你們的專注力克服了它。這就是『刻意創造』。」告訴他們這個。
然後再說：「現在，本週作業容易得多。條列出任何事情/東西正向的地方/方面，只寫那些你們看到這世界上的事情/東西正在正向運作的地方/方面。」
然後你會注意到，就在你眼前，透過這方法，這2人將對齊他們真正的自己（靈魂）。
當2個人對齊真正的自己，並且在關係之中，那是一個美好奇妙關係！
（本篇結束）
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12-485. This Process Will Work For Anything
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（🛑本篇是亞伯拉罕給感情顧問的建議）
Abraham: Here’s the way we approach that - - -
We say to people in the beginning when we talk about where the Law of Attraction and about harness your own vibration, so that you are cooperating with Law of Attraction.
When you decide to be a Deliberate Creator of your experience, many people at first really like the idea of that, “Oh, I will have control of my experience!”
But what they often have misunderstood, they think, “Oh, I will have control of the way other people are behaving in my experience, because it’s the other people that have been giving me so much grief.” It’s really what most people feel. They’ve been reacting to life and they fervently desire to find some way of controlling that behavior so that when them observe it, they can feel better.
So, you have to make them understand that in this Law of Attraction based Universe, there’s no such thing as “no”. You cannot look at what is not wanted and shout “no” at it without holding yourself in vibrational alignment with the thing you do not want. So, just state the law as you know it to be.
🥳 When you say “Yes” to something, you get more of it.
😱 When you say “No” to something, you get more of it.
So,
🆗 Start saying “Yes” to more of the things that your partner offers that you want,
🤐and then shut up about the things that your partner is offering that you don’t want. Until you train yourself not to have those unwanted things in your vibration.
Now people don’t want to hear that. They don’t want to hear you say, “You’re getting it, because you’re asking for it.” Because they don’t think they’re asking for it, they’re getting it and they don’t even want it! Why would they ask for something they don’t even want?
So you have to help them to understand, that the Law of Attraction is not discriminating against them, it is always giving them what’s active in their vibration.
And then, even though they’re sitting there shaking their head at you. Say,
“Do me a favor and play a game this week before I see you again.” And here’s the game,
Get a notebook, and sit down, not together, and write a List of Positive Aspects about your mate.
And don’t make it up, don’t stretch, don’t say, “She’s the perfect body weight.” When you think she’s overweight. Don’t say that! (The audience laughs)
Don’t say, “She’s a great cook.” when you can’t eat anything she makes. Don’t say that! Don’t make it up! Don’t challenge yourself with it. Just write the things.
And something that really works well - - - is to remember how you felt when you met. Write about those first days that first encounter how that first loving felt, write about that. And then say to them, “Just write about it, just write about it, don’t make it up, and don’t lie to yourself about it.” But just try to emphasize the aspects of your partner that you really appreciate.
And don’t talk to each other about it. Just do it privately. And we will talk next time we are together.”
And it is our promise to you that if they are willing to do it…… If they’re not willing to do it, then they’re wrong for you anyway.
👨💼Questioner: Right.
👥Abraham: Because that’s a really small request that you’re making, so that means they don’t trust you, it means that they don’t have a strong enough desire, they’re not the right people for you to be working with.
But if they will do the work, when they come back, their relationship will have changed in one week’s time!
💖They will have fewer negative encounters and many more positive encounters,
💖because they will have awakened in themselves, each of them, the thing about the other that they most appreciate, but more important than the evoking from each other better behavior which will happen too,
💖they will be using each other as their excuse to be in the Vortex.
And when you use someone as your excuse..., we’re just going to give these words to you, and you can sort it out through the counseling that you are doing later.
When you use someone as your excuse to be in the Vortex, you love them! You Love Them!!! Because you can’t be in the Vortex unless you are focused in that way!
So when you use someone deliberately, use someone to be your excuse, to be in the Vortex, Source fills you, and then that’s what being in love anyway!
That’s why people want to drag them home, and keep them. Those people that make them feel that way!
In other words, if people really knew about the Vortex, looking for a partner wouldn’t be the big quest it is for so many people!
There would be more programs about getting into the Vortex and far fewer about finding a mate. Seriously! Because there isn’t anything that anyone wants for any other reason than they believe they will feel better in the having of it, you see!
So, there’s a magic in that List of Positive Aspects that will give them the opportunity to shift their vibration and then change their Point of Attraction.
Yes, but change the way they feel more important！
So, next time you see them, they’re going to feel better about life, they’re going to feel better about all things.
And then, you can say to them, “ Now your assignment for next week, you did really good this week, because you did the hardest thing, you took the subject that was your subject of contention a little bit and you overcame it with your power of focus. That’s the Deliberate Creation.” Tell them.
“Now, this week’s assignment will be much easier. Make your List of Positive Aspects about anything, but just keep writing about the things that are working the positive aspects that you see in this world.”
And what you will notice is that right before your eyes with that one process, these people will align themselves to who they really are. And two people align to who they really are having a relation is one wonderful relationship.
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